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The Death of Approach Anxiety: A 10-Year Reflection (Video)

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I turn 27 years old tomorrow, but I have put multiple lifetimes of work into mastering the art of seduction. I have given it almost every second of my attention for the past 10 years. I have (literally) beat myself up learning the ins and outs of the female mind.

There are still some mysteries that remain for me, but they are few, and so I want to commemorate my 10-year journey with a video on the #1 problem that most men face when finding women they want to sleep with, date, marry, or even have children with.

Approach anxiety.

It is the BIGGEST problem that all men have.

I had it HORRIBLY in my teenage years.

Then, one day, for the most part, it turned off.

Of course, I'm human and still even encounter approach anxiety to this day, but what happened when I "woke up" is that the anxiety was overcome by something greater....

This is an ode to the death of approach anxiety. A death to that which keeps most of you from finding the girl(s) of your dreams.

Hector CastilloAbout the Author: Hector Castillo

Hector Castillo is the web’s top expert on getting laid in college. In his small town university, he went from World of Warcraft nerd to president of his fraternity in 4 years... And on the way, he bedded close to 50 women. To follow his life up close, follow his Instagram here. His book King of College is due out soon. Listen to the 40-minute interview with Hector on his story and some of his prized tech... and sign up for a 12-week coaching course with him, here:



Neal's picture

You know what's so funny Hector, you say you love women so much, and these women liked you, but you blame yourself for not escalating with them when they were in your room, these girls from chuch, but then they reject you on your basis that you rejected them 1st, so if they liked you so much, why couldn't they understand, when you're just like any other person or girl that could be shy/insecure. Something doesn't add up here huh -_-, it seems the women who like you the most, are the ones that are quickest to want to revenge with you the most. And get this GC wants everyone to think this is a wonderful thing?

Hector Castillo's picture

I'm really not sure what you're getting at. Your comment doesn't make much sense. Why couldn't she understand what? She threw herself at me and I didn't make a move. I also didn't finish the whole story because it would take 5 hours. 

What does any of this have to do with loving women or the girls liking me?

Who wants revenge on me?  

I'm genuinely confused by your comment. 


Want to make her wet? I'll show you how.

Neal's picture

I was commenting the part where after she made her move, and you went at her later, she made the "why you hitting on me" and you said it was you rejected her 1st. But what you seemed to have described, was wimping out, not actually rejection her in a literal sense.

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