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Frame Control Methods to Get Women in Bed Fast

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In this series of posts about frame control, we’ve learned what good frames are and why they work. Now let’s talk about the methods you can use to set frames.

Hey, guys! Welcome back.

In previous weeks, we have discussed what frames are, why they are important, and what constitutes a good frame versus a bad frame.

Here are those posts if you haven’t checked them out yet:

Hopefully, with those posts you’re now familiar with:

  • What frames are
  • Their importance not only in seduction but in every social setting
  • What defines good frames
  • How you can make your framing more powerful
  • How you can better control the frame

But after all this theory, I have not given contextual examples, which is exactly what I will do in this post. We will discuss different ways in which a frame is set. This will give you an idea of what framing looks like in real life.

Even though we will not go into heavy details of how each technique is used, rest assured that each has been addressed on Girls Chase (and there will always be more to come). This post serves as an overview and starting point. Maybe you will discover new ways to set your favorite frames.

Of course, the list I am about to share is not complete, but I would say that it covers the most common methods of setting frames. My point is – there are more ways. We will distinguish between a few here:

  • Verbal and non-verbal
  • Direct and indirect
  • Active and passive

You can set frames both verbally and non-verbally. For example, you can tell a story or talk about a subject that would help set a frame. However, note that frames can also be set verbally as a response to her actions. That is often a good place to work from, or you can work with what you have in that moment. We will get more into that, do not worry.

You can set the frame non-verbally as well through escalation and eye contact.

You can set a frame passively – through action or passive behavior that dictates the vibe. For example, when you build social proof, you will automatically frame yourself as a man with options who is pursued by women – a very attractive frame. But you are not directly setting a frame; it comes as a result of the context you have created.

Anyway – no more dwelling, let’s get to the meat.

I will first discuss direct ways (active) to set a frame before moving on to how to do it passively. Finally, we will discuss how to set a frame reactively.

Alek RolstadAbout the Author: Alek Rolstad

Alek Rolstad launched his pickup career at age 14, an early starter and seduction savant. His unique style of game focuses on “sex talk”: a way to make sex the primary topic of conversation. Sex talk lets the user excite girls rapidly, and filter for girls open to fast, raunchy, kinky one-night stands and sex. You can learn from Alek, the master and originator of sex talk himself, by booking a 1-hour phone consultation with him.



Lawliet's picture

Thanks for going into detail about frame control. Your guide goes into more detail and giving readers a basic as well as advanced assistance.

I'm still a few articles behind and you're already pumping out new ones :)

Just one suggestion, I'm a visual learner, and your current examples help me understand a lot better! 

But can you give a few more examples? Maybe with a different variation of a similar situation?



Alek Rolstad's picture

I am happy to hear you enjoyed this article. 

I think it is hard to craft up non-real life examples. It is therefore recommended to read lay reports and field reports, including many of mine where there is a clear use of framing and reframing. The 10th year anniversary report that is post on the forums is one good example of hardcore framing. 

I think at this point it would be to discuss real life examples and see how framing was done and how it could have been done better. It is recommended to do so on the forums! :)




Stefzzxxyy's picture

but I would say that it covers the most uncommon methods of setting fram (you mean most common or uncommon??)

Alek Rolstad's picture

Hey there. 

You are right, there is typo here (was one from my end). It was supposed to be written "common" and not "uncommon". I notified the editing team. 

Thank you for pointed that out.



BT Harrison's picture

Correction made.  Thanks for catching it!  :)


Witcher's picture

Hey Alek, 

Thank for this article. Do you have any recommendation of a course or book to learn the skill of frame control not only for seduction but for other areas of life? 

Thank you! 

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