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Explicit content ahead! No, not really. But such a warning can
work as a golden buffer for transitions into juicy sex talk with your
girl.
This post doesn’t really contain explicit content, but I made you look. :)
Seeing the headline, you probably:
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Got a bit curious about the content of this post
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Considered whether you wanted to expose yourself to explicit content – you could have closed this article if you didn’t
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Are more likely to accept the explicit content of this post, having been warned
You’ll see where I’m going with this as you read – if you haven’t figured it out already. The reactions discussed above constitute a little trick I’m about to show you.
The purpose of this post is to share a technique that can help you:
- Sexualize conversations
- Avoid resistance and other side effects of sexualization
Comments
Possibility
Great article, this seems like a great way to transition to sexual topics that I'll have to try out. I'm thinking maybe transitioning into the topic of how surveys say a low percentage of women having orgasms during sex, then offering explicit or not stories about what works? Do you think that would be effective?
And on a side note, a high percentage of women I find attractive (and some I dont) pull their lips in like they're licking them when they see me. Do you observe this in women and is this maybe a subconscious sign of arousal?
M@ Hey
Hey and thank you for your comment.
The survey thing sounds like a good way to transition, it is innocent and easy-going. However I am afraid that talking about surveys can make the conversation a bit boring. This is a real pitfall you have to take into consideration. Lots of young and stupid girls (remember young does not equal stupid) might get scared off words like "survey" and "science". Also how can a survey be explicit? The survey part actually tones things down already. But again, try it out and see how it works.
About the second part of your comment the signs you mention are in fact subconscious signs or attraction and arousal.
Hope this was useful.
Best,
Alek
Thanks
Thanks for the response, Alek! I've realized that at least for me, this topic is more advanced and I need to step back and work first on capitalizing on opportunities.
An example from about a week after my first comment: asked a cute redhead working where I was shopping for help finding something (she's very attractive and that was my excuse to talk to her). She quickly stands up, takes a couple of steps toward me, at which point our bodies and faces are literally no more than 8 inches apart, and in the process licks her lips and sweeps her hair from her forehead. So much sexual tension there! Unfortunately I let the moment pass - I think because it caught me by surprise, and I figured it couldn't have been real - and have been kicking myself since...still not sure if I should have complimented her (she has amazing hair but some say never compliment a girl early on), or if I should have just changed gears and introduced myself first and chatted before I asked (I proceeded to ask her where the item was and she took me to it)...
Anyway, definitely appreciate your insights and hope to get some traction and results soon!
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