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Your Desires Are an Unmatched Tool to Motivate and Seduce

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Desire – your real desire – is a deep motivating force, and immensely attractive to the opposite sex. Tap into it and use it well, and you can do the near-impossible.

I received some very positive feedback from my article on the Interest-Preference-Desire model. If you haven’t read that, I suggest going back and taking a peek, because as a follow-up on that model, today I’m going to dive deeper into what “desire” is and how it affects our lives.

Desire is not only applicable to the process of seduction and attracting women, it plays a key role in the pursuit of our goals and how we live – specifically, the choices we make.

In the last article, I concluded that among the concepts of interest, preference, and desire, desire is the ultimate tool that actually results in committed action. There’s greater nuance when it comes to desire, because desire itself can be more fluctuating and relative. Some people never experience a constant desire for something long term, while others desire an outcome so badly that they continue to chase the desire even after it’s already been fulfilled multiple times.

What gives?

I’ll break this down in a hopefully easy-to-digest form, but do keep in mind that there is a lot of psychology and philosophy involved when it comes to desire.

Varoon RajahAbout the Author: Varoon Rajah

A New York City native, Varoon’s studied under many of the seduction industry’s leading instructors. His specialty is direct day game, where he meets girls on the street, on the subway, and in coffee shops. Varoon is the host for the Girls Chase Podcast, available on iTunes or via SoundCloud.



Davido's picture

I can relate well with this article especially the concluding part. I have tested this infield many times and it worked like magic. By using a strong, sexy, weak and lustful eye contact combined with intense breathing caused by horniness I got the girl breathing very hard also and I led her to the sex location creating a sexual urgency, she was mesmerized that a guy could be this into her...but I tell you it was all an act by me. I was able to smash this girl and ever since I have been using this method when I feel my verbal game is getting rusty.

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Nice method there - with strong sexy weak and lustful eye contact executed at the right time, as well as horny desire hidden within your mind as you stare at a woman in her eyes, you can quite often melt her and make her so weak at the knees that she will almost collapse. I love how you created sexual urgency with this method - try experimenting with your words/verbals too, and see if you can get her even more excited about sleeping with you as you look at her with desire.


stefxxxyyy's picture

jaja nice article Varoon, go easy with people with conservative values "Cup B (the judgmental, immature, and weak-minded type)" some men think like that because of that reasons but they may be other arguments for wanting virginal women and things like that that are much more reasonable and does not have to come from a "weak minded" or "inmature" men, maybe we should be open to that possibility, or not? they can also make a caricature of the liberal position saying " we are inmature for just wanting to bang sluts or evil for corrupting women with degenerate free sex ideology", you see my point!

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Hey Stefxxxyyy,

Thanks for your comment, glad you enjoyed the article. I'll clarify that when I talk about judgemental, immature, and weak-minded men that I am not talking about conservative men or liberal men by any means. Sure, men can have their reasons from wanting virginal women and everything that comes with it, just as much as men can have their reasons for wanting women with "degenerate free sex ideology," haha. There's nothing wrong with being more conservative or more liberal. I find a lot of men oscillate between these extremes as well, depending on what they want at that moment in time - much like how women look for different kinds of men if they're looking for a boyfriend/husband versus if they're just looking for great sex with the hottest guy for the night. We're not that different as men and women in that way.

What I was actually referring to, though, is men who don't make an effort to understand women - what women really, truly are and what the want - and instead view women through their own lens which lacks understanding. Lack of understanding is one of the more dangerous concepts in humanity, and from lacking understanding - correspondingly those people who lack understanding often stick HARD to the wrong mental model, sometimes going as far as to defend the ideology with their life - we get most of the chaos that exists in the world today, including wars, violence, political and religious extremism, as well as domestic issues. A lot of men, for instance, view women in terms of the Madonna-Whore complex, where a girl is either a slutty bad girl or a prudish good girl - these same men I've noticed cannot fathom to think that a single woman can actually occupy both ends of the spectrum (lady in the streets, freak in the sheets) and they get very, very upset when I suggest to them that a single women can be both things. I've noticed most often when people lack understanding they also become extremely righteous and are not open to changing their viewpoint regardless of whatever evidence you provide. It's one of the worst ways to be "stuck," so to speak.


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