When you fractionate sexual tension – by breaking tension
yourself, then resuming it later – you make its effect much, much
mightier on her.
Alright, this being my sixth post in my series on sexual tension, we have already covered the crucial steps. You can view the previous installments in this series here:
- Sexual Tension Basics: What is Sexual Tension?
- How to Create Sexual Tension with Women
- What to Do When She Giggles or Jokes (Hint: Don't Break Tension!)
- Create Comfort with Her, and Sexual Tension Comes Easy
- How to Recover from a Sexual Tension Break
Contents
Today we will add some seasoning – my favorite seasoning: fractionation. This post, therefore, will serve as a very powerful expansion on the foundational elements we’ve previously discussed.
Some may consider themselves more or less familiar with my previous posts, which will help in grasping this material. It would perhaps also be a good idea to have experimented a bit with the concepts covered in those posts in order to have built some comfort with them.
What I am going to teach you here is how to push the sexual tension to the next level and how you can gain increased control over it.
Now, this post is some topping on the cake – more of a “master class” thing.
Either way, let us get into it.
Comments
Alek,
Alek,
I was reading through your articles on sexual tension. I have got got a question: you said not to try to do any facial expression, limit it to a poker face. How is that sexy? We should not do any sexy smirks, etc? Maybe I am doing it wrong. Could you possibly post a pic of that poker face please?
Agent
Hi Agent.
Thank you for your question.
The real answer I can give you is that yes there are certain facial expressions you can use to build sexual tension - that works. You are absolutely right about that. There are three reasons why I did not cover the following:
1) It is very hard to convey the following over a blogpost - almost impossible. I could share picture, but even that would have its flaw - it is impossible to find good pictures for that.
2) Different facial expressions works for different guys - this is very individual. I therefore favored to cover a neutral one. Additionally I oftentimes see guys talking about "sexual facial expressions" and when pulling them off they actually very rarely make them work. Their facial expressions have a low success ratio. This poker face thing actually works for most guys.
3) In my experience in most cases - this is the the best foundation, if not the best overall way to trigger the most sexual tension.
There you go :)
-Alek
Thank you
I have seen fractionation mentioned all over the web but your blogs are the only ones that actually explain what it is and how to use it with out asking for money or email addresses. Thank you for the useful information. my one question is if I was to use fractionation on a girl what should I use as an opener? like how would I start the interaction with a girl in say a club or at school or something?
Drew
We are happy to hear that. I love this concept and I am more than happy to share it with you. Why do you think they charge money or demand emails for this particular technique? It is because it is one, if not the most powerful tool one can use.
Onto your question:
It seems you put too much emphasis one opening. Opening has one main purpose - to open up and give you a playing room to escalate things further. Trying to "add-in" too much juice into a an opener is actually a waste of time, because all the juicy stuff (escalation, fractionation and so on) are things that are easier to do post opening (and post-hook). If you haven't opened properly and hooked her in, fractionation and other techniques will not work. So your priority when it comes to openers, is to make sure they open and hook them in. Once they are hooked in, you transition into the juicy stuff.
-Alek
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