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Over
the last few weeks we’ve covered “The 7 Greatest Things
about
Cougars” and “How to Have Sex with a Cougar”.
These two posts
covered why cougars can be so alluring, why it can be fantastic to be
able to get sexually involved with them (as if you didn’t already know
that), and how to go about actually getting one in bed.
So suppose you followed the methodology of the last two posts. You’ve come to understand the mindset of the cougar; you’ve come to understand what her circumstances and what her expectations are; and you followed the process of either meeting her in person or online and managed to take her to bed. And let’s say now you have put yourself in the situation where you have an established sexual relationship with the cougar.
How do you go about maintaining consistent and positive rapport with her? That is what I want to talk about today: the six rules of cougar dating.
Comments
Urgent.
Okay, i have this urgent need for advice.
About an hour ago i was chatting with a girl on facebook, who is a friend of a friend.
I had a normal fun chat until she started playing around a bit, which i noticed and played along for the sake of playing.
And all of the sudden i used a normal phrase, that i "prefer" face to face "interaction" rather than facebook chat.
To which she replies: "You aren`t going to fuck any girl with words such as "prefer" or "interaction" :) relax, just be yourself".
I was left speachless by her statement.
For 30 minutes i didn`t know what to do, expect to come here and ask for help.
Those two words "prefer" and "interact" are somewhat of intelligent and uncommon words used where i live, in my country.
Also, my closest family has somewhat made similar statements in the past.
What am i doing wrong here ?
Should i listen to her ?
Should i be, more me, more myself ?
Should i stop using interesting words ?
Maybe i did go overboard with the intelligent attitude, but do note that this girl is older than me and i don`t see any romance between us either.
Relax
Hey Anon,
I'm not to familiar with the culture of your country. In the future I would recommend using words in your culture that fit the dialog. Anyway, since you don't see any romance between you and the girl, I'd let it go. I would advise to keep Facebook, text, or online dating dialog short and to the point. If you're ever a lost for words, just pull back from the conversation. The girl was testing you to see how'd you react. If you didn't reply, you didn't give her any reaction. It seems like she was controlling the conversation. It's best in situations like these to feel the girl out and decide if you want to push forward or not. If things seem plausible push forward, if not forget about her.
Just Dave
"You aren`t going to fuck any
"You aren`t going to fuck any girl with words such as "prefer" or "interaction" :) relax, just be yourself".
Your response to such statements should show you don't give a shit. "It's worked like a charm so far" is one option for a cocky-funny response.
Also, she turned the conversation to fucking; that's your cue to talk sexually. So a response like "You're right; I usually fuck women with my dick" could be a winner here. It's bold, it's cocky-funny, and it is warranted sexual dialogue.
Later, if you think that she gave solid advice, then you could adjust your future word choice to sound less stuffy. Hopefully, you did not adjust your word choice on the spot for her. That would show that you were not relaxing and not being yourself, causing you to fail her shit-test.
And that second part of her statement actually is good advice. But if she sees you bending to the first part of her statement, you aren't heeding the second part.
At the time all i was
At the time all i was thinking was on improving myself, my skills set and every critic, both positive and negative that i have received were more than welcomed.
In this case, i wasn`t thinking anything sexual with that girl ( maybe i should have given the fact she started blatantly talking about fucking - another lesson learned ) and when she said that all my thoughts went on for me having to improve myself in that department.
"Just be yourself" - I will be following this advice in order to relax myself a bit, but not fully.
Because if i go fully with the "Be yourself type of advice" i would never become a better person, better in the skills i need to have, better with women, etc.
I see you have a solid foundation on the "be yourself" type of deal, and if you can enlighten me a bit on that here, it would be great.
Confused
Colt,
Excellent article. The cougar market is one that cannot be overlooked, especially with the age putting their sex drive at full capacity.
There's something I'm confused about and I was hoping you could clear this up since I pretty much agree with your style and handling of women overall:
If I don't take a girl to bed the first night, how do I pursue without making it look like I'm chasing? (ie: Do I text her the next day? What do I do exactly?)
And is it wise to end a first date early to make myself appear scarce, even if that means not having sex with her the first night?
Thanks!
Saving Time
Hey Ty,
It's best to end dates early if you don't see them going anywhere. The last thing you want to do is poor time into a failing interaction. You could text a girl the next day saying you had fun. Then text her a couple days later to set up another meet. It's important to be direct about the meet. That way you know where you stand if you didn't get first date sex.
Just Dave
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