Note
from Chase: about a month ago,
we published the first article by
Colt in our "Student of the Game" series, "How to Succeed with
Women," and I asked the readers here if they'd like to see more
from a guy who's still learning the ropes on getting girls. The
response was "yes," and Colt's submitted another article for us here.
Hope you enjoy.
It’s a dream of almost every man out there: to be irresistible to women. But, most men write this off as a pipedream.
Yet, this “pipedream” is a lot more attainable as a reality than most men think. And
today…we’re going to focus on turning those pipedreams into pipe reality.
There’s a lot of debate in the self-improvement circles about where confidence comes from: does it come from within, or does it come from without? On this site we normally try to find balance, and in that spirit, usually settle on the fact that once you find a few ounces of confidence to start approaching, your inevitable success with women will only feed your inner confidence and make you more confident, more irresistible to women, and more successful – a self-perpetuating cycle.
But the confidence you get from working on getting better with girls isn’t the only confidence you can build - or even the most effective variety.
Comments
Your posts are amazing bro, hope you reply to this!
I gotta say Chase, I've been following your posts for quite some time now, and I've been sold from the very first post I read from your site. I am 22 years old. I've been going through lots of anxiety from breaking up with my ex. But today me and my buddy went to chill at one of the classy shopping malls and grab a bite. I was waiting in line to buy some food at the food court, and I saw this hot girl standing next to me, she smiled at me and i smiled back than, all your posts just started running through my mind and i told myself that I have to take charge, no more sitting back letting opprotunities pass me by, so I started talking to the girl, turned out she was visiting Toronto on a visa (coming from Slovakia), and today was her last day left in Canada. Long story short, we bought the food together engaging in an interesting conversation. And so i told her to follow my lead so that we could find an empty table to eat at. I didn't even ask her if she wanted to join me, but she followed me anyways. We finished eating and i sensed she wanted to go shopping, so i took your advice and i took charge again, and said wanna go do some shopping. It felt like we knew each other for years. She smiled and said "yes". After a bit of shopping, i told her to come to Hamilton with me ( 1hour drive) but she said tonight she has to pack her luggage. And so I told her " that's cool" but instead took her to my car and bedded her there. I have got to say that if it wasn't for your posts, I would have never gotten this far. You helped me out in a many ways money can't buy. That's why tonight I owe it all to you by buying your whole ebook/video/book package of all three of your revolutionary products and let the word out about your products and your site. Keep these posts coming, you really are helping people in their everyday relationships. But Enough of the ass kissing. What books do you recommend for a future undergrad student in the major of psychology and some sociology. I start my first year in January but want to have a sufficient amount of knowlege in these areas, to be mentally prepared and more confident overall. I'd appreciate your input on this. Thanks! :)
Reading List
Hey Kurdox,
Great job with the Slovakian girl, man, and I'm honored to be credited with having helped you make strides. Appreciate your business and the word of mouth - hope you're digging the programs so far. Very cool of you.
I haven't put up a reading list... never occurred to me that'd be something people'd want to see! But sure, I can cobble one of those together. I'll put one up in a little bit.
Cheers,
Chase
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