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Student of the Game: How to Succeed with Women

succed with womenNote from Chase: Colt first got in touch with me almost two months ago to tell me he'd gotten a great deal out of reading the blog and the book here and asked if he might contribute something. My response to this was, "Let's see what you've got, kid!" So he sent along the following article. Here it is, with but a few edits, Colt's first post as a "Student of the Game." Below, please let us know if you've enjoyed hearing from a newer guy who's doing well yet still working out a few of the kinks in his approach toward women and if you'd like to see more from Colt in the future.

When I first started actively approaching women, I had a million voices in my head telling me that I couldn’t succeed with women, that I shouldn’t succeed. How could a regular guy like me be able to charm women like Casanova? If every other man in the world had, at best, mediocre success with girls, why would I do any better? I didn’t want to step out of the norm... I didn’t even know how.

Deep down, every man, I believe, wants to be unique. Every man wants to show women why they should choose him and nobody else. But believing that you can succeed can be a hard roadblock; taking the first step isn’t always easy. If you’ve had difficulty with taking the first step, chances are that’s why you are on this site. And if that’s the case, this post is for you.

Colt WilliamsAbout the Author: Colt Williams

Raised in the American Midwest, Colt Williams made a name for himself in dating with a style based on soulful poetic seductions and playful dance floor antics. His style is all about inspiring girls and drawing them into one’s world. You can book phone coaching with him here, or get a copy of his guide to getting laid on Tinder, the product of months of study and experimentation by him on the medium.


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Anonymous's picture

Great article, definitely would like to hear more from Colt, learn from a new student should be fun

Eric's picture

This post was actually truly inspiring to me, as I've had a lot of the same thoughts. I love women and want to be THAT guy who inspires and shakes their world. It's a refreshing post that is much different from some lines of thought (such as Aaron Sleazy's tall + attractive).

I don't believe everything is possible, but that won't stop me from trying.

I'm still trying to figure out what to do when girls respond to "Are you single?" with a "No" or "I'm taken unfortunately/at the moment :(".

If they say yes it's very easy for me to get a date. However, if they say they are taken I always feel like it's a social faux pas to transition (later or whenever appropriate) into -- "Okay.. well we should get a coffee sometime", "I know you have a boyfriend.. but I still think we should go for coffee sometime", etc...

AR's picture

This was an amazing perspective, I feel like I can relate to Colt as someone just starting. I hope to see more of his posts!

Just Dave's picture

I really like what Colt has to say and offer as fair as skill set. I can't wait to see more of him. Being romantic is very rewarding both toward long term and short term goals.

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Anonymous's picture

Great post! I would love to hear more especially because I am just starting out too! Very relatable!

KS's picture

Very Nice! This was a great first post (outside of "this directs in so many directions") :p. I would love to see a follow-up about how Colt handled things in the actual "class" and another on his texting or date. Very chill

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