GM style: a crass, irreverent, and utterly hilarious way to make
women horny, excited... and ready to hop in bed quick.
In 1999, an American expat in Paris named Nathan Szilard commented
a talented natural seducer in a bar he kept running into:
guy -- looks like an heroin addict, looks fortyish (but
might be younger), dressed in black and/or like shit, skinny, tall,
wrinkled, never smiles ... and gets laid like a rock star.”
One day, at that bar – the same place Nathan always spied this guy –
he chatted up a pair of girls. Suddenly, the guy showed up,
flashed Nathan an amused grin, and swooped in to talk with the cuter of
Nathan’s two girls.
Two minutes in, the guy asked someone for a pen and paper and
took the girl’s phone number.
Five minutes in, Nathan excused himself to the washroom... and
walked in on the guy and his girl making out with their hands all over
Impressed and amazed, Nathan dubbed this guy the ‘Grand Master’...
or ‘GM’ for short. And over the next year or so, Nathan Szilard
befriended and worked to decipher
the game of this guy he dubbed ‘GM’.
Note: If you are a beginner
dater, probably don’t try to use GM style. You risk awkward creepiness
if you botch your delivery. Focus on less edgy
stuff first. For the
more advanced guys (or the still-curious beginners), read on...
One of Nathan’s earliest analyses of GM style was this:
recollect what I forgot to mention in my earlier post.
He makes it clear right away that he wants sex. He explained it to
He does not really understand what is going on, me thinks.
He does not compliment.
I explained him the concept of neg hit; he disagreed ... YET HE
ALL THE TIME. Well, it’s not NEGs, it’s more like ‘vannes’ as I
explained once, that’s to say, taking the piss on her. So he fucked
that German yesterday, and before that, made a few (light) jokes about
Germans, then ‘apologized’ by hugging/kissing her.
He takes every opportunity to go kino [touch]. I’ve already
He claims that he does not act the same with every woman. I asked
about some place that’s packed with model-types full-bitch-shielded
types, how do you handle that I asked, and he said, “You don’t get it,
you don’t do the same thing there, I’ll explain you later.”
He asks boring questions, name, job, then joke on it, and when I
JOKE, I mean FUCKING LAME jokes.
To a German: “you speak German really well!”
To a Japanese: “you speak Japanese really well!”
To an Italian: “you speak Italian really well!”
Original, heh? And on top of that he said it several times to the
girl. “You really speak German well! LOL “.”
For a time, Grand Master style (or GM style), a method of strong
sexual direct jokes, chase frames, and sexual intent, became one of the
most popular methods in the pick up artist (PUA) community, alongside
Mystery Method and Gunwitch Method.
These days it’s largely forgotten.
But it shouldn’t be. It’s a different, fresh, and highly irreverent
approach to bedding girls in a hurry – and the Grand Master still has
lots to teach.