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Younger Men and Older Women

A couple of weeks ago while I visiting Southern California, my ex-girlfriend there told me the story of some colleagues of hers. One was a tall, slender, elegantly beautiful, but slightly older-looking woman over whom everyone in the office took much interest, but who rather kept to herself and was none too talkative about her background. The other was a mid-20ish player kind of guy who was constantly chatting up all the cute girls in the office and regaling his coworkers with tales of his conquests.

Chase AmanteAbout the Author: Chase Amante

Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone. So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating. After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website. He will teach you everything he knows about girls in one single program in his Mastery Package.


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Downdiggity's picture

Hey Chase. I've been running into this problem a lot lately (I'm 23), and thought I ought to see how Chase handles it. And great to see, you have an article about it!

I'm excited to try this out. There was this girl I met a week ago, went out with once, and could tell we were connecting and she was interested. Then I ran into her tonight, and she said 'if only you were five years older, or I were five years younger...'. She was clearly interested, giving me doe eyes, but wasn't comfortable enough. Now I know, I should have given her a funny quip there, and/or lightly panned younger women.

Until next time!

Anonymous's picture

Well, you are wrong. I'm 52, look great, and younger men ask me out all the time. I'm the one who says I"m too old for them, they dont believe I"m 52 and they dont care about the age. And im talking about really handsome guys in their 30s or younger, model type, with beautiful faces and bodies. So I don't believe a young guy would be repulsed by a beautiful woman in their 40s or 50s.

Anonymous's picture

Sounds then, as though your comment of being "too old" for them, is baseless, and (like he said) youre too caught up on numbers, because society says u "look weird" by dating younger men. Otherwise youre just validating his point.

Derrick's picture

This seems useful for the guys who are just starting off who want to try and gain some experience with women, figuring in many cases that going for a girl who is a bit older (and thus not being as actively competed for) is a good idea, only to find it's still a pain in the back.

BladeRunner's picture

... And what happens when you're for example 35, and target 19 years old girls?

Girls of that age seem to be quite sensitive about the subject, and, in clubs, tend to reject you for it right away. (many times they just look at you scared or repulsed to begin with)

Anonymous's picture

Stumbled upon this article and was very impress. I’m 30 year old woman an I am still getting use to dating only men in their 20’s. It’s not that I won’t date men in their 30’s it’s more that they won’t date me. The one’s I know have politely rejected me when I asked or are already dating (or want to date) a much younger woman. Men in their 20’s tend to be better looking, better dressers, and love it when a woman asks them out. I am sometimes amazed at how amazed they are by my confidence and strait forwardness.

I love this article because it really hits the key issues as why women are afraid of dating younger. It doesn’t bring up superficial issues like money or the ability to provide for a family. Other articles of this nature tend to bring those topics up as if most women only care about money and popping out children. Thank you for writing this.

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