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Looking for a Woman? Here’s What to Do

You know that feeling. We all know that feeling. You find yourself caught in the same routine: wake up, go to work, come home, heat up some quick food/order food, watch TV or a movie, go to bed. Then wake up…and do it all over again. Maybe you change up the routine a bit with a visit to the gym, an outing to a bar, a video game, or going out to see a movie in theaters.

You walk around, the sun is shining, the breeze is kissing your face, and yet…you feel like something is missing.

You look around and you see happy guys walking side by side with girls in summer dresses. Maybe they are having a summer fling. Maybe they’re in a relationship. Maybe they’re married. Regardless of what the case may be, you see what they have that you don’t: a woman.

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And no matter how much you may have going on in your life – how good you are at your job, how many friends you have, how nice your apartment is – life just isn’t complete without a woman in your life. Every man comes to this realization at one point or another.

Regardless of whether it’s a one-night stand, a repeat hookup, or a bona fide relationship, a man can’t call himself happy – can’t call himself a true man – without the ability to bring women into his life.

So how do you bring women into your life? What do you do when you’re looking for a woman to break you out of your routine?

This question is exactly what I’m going to answer today. So pause that episode of Game of Thrones and pay attention.

Colt WilliamsAbout the Author: Colt Williams

Raised in the American Midwest, Colt Williams made a name for himself in dating with a style based on soulful poetic seductions and playful dance floor antics. His style is all about inspiring girls and drawing them into one’s world. You can book phone coaching with him here, or get a copy of his guide to getting laid on Tinder, the product of months of study and experimentation by him on the medium.


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Sam2's picture


This is an article of great substance.

Quick questions:

1) Approximately how many approaches should a man make per week to get one or more of the results you are talking about in the bullets?

2) What is the approximate percentage of rejections/go-nowhere interactions with women that a guy gets once he has achieved mastery level?

Anonymous's picture

That is a question even I wanna know the answer to. I would add about how many no does the average guy get before he gets a yes.

Ramires316's picture

And right on time. I've been going out a little less these past months because I've been trying to get my career focused, but with summer here I've been itching to meet women all over the place. I finally went out to some bars over the weekend and struck out. Then yesterday, at a retirement party for an old teacher friend of mine at an outdoor patio bar during the day, the bartender working there was a breathtaking brunette with an unbelievable smile. After I mingled for a bit, there was almost no one at the bar so I walked up and started a conversation with her. It help that I stood out so much at this little honky think place. She seem genuinely captivated by me and was giving me compliance automatically. When I asked her out, she told me she had a boyfriend but then started backtracking. I asked her out again point blank, specifying "on a date" and she agreed and gave her number.

She seemed so caught off guard that such a high value guy was at this rinky dink small town bar, which I totally used to my advantage. She texted me back that night and I'm gonna set up a date today. It really goes to show you that a good seducer needs to be on his game at all hours because she turned out to be hotter than any girl I saw the night before.

I'm also doing the online thing and getting better at my system. My big thing is trying to cut through the bs. Like girls who state they want a relationship but are actually down and vice versa. An article on spotting contradictions in profiles or picking up textual hints would be cool.

David Riley's picture

Hey Ramires,

Glad to hear the interaction went well. I'm gonna let Chase and the other authors know about your request.

Take care,

Just Dave

Samrhodes24's picture

I often get to know people easily and don`t have any problem approaching and talking to them while revealing very little about me.This happens as an answer to their question about me or when i try to build rapport.Question is am i being too much playful?. They like me for that but i strongly doubt me presenting myself as a "FUNNY TEASER GUY" instead of an alpha.Could any one please tell me about behaviour strategies that work in common without being a joker.


David Riley's picture

Hey Sam,

This article should help you out.

3 Flavors of Sexy

Take care,

Just Dave

Anonymous's picture

Hey Colt,

I have a different question. Everytime I ask they tell me victim mentality and crap and shit like that. I do take action. Problem is I constantly get Nos or polite put down or a date that turns into no interest. What can I do??? When I go to a night club I go alone. And I approach few of the women I am interested in. Problem is they ALWAYS put me down 100% of the time. What can I do? I dress ok (Atleast acceptable). I wouldn't say I have the best presence or vibe or confidence but I don't know how to change a VIBE, or Presence. I can dress well, I can have a straight back, I can make eye contact but that is what I can change. So what do you recommend?

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