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How to Romance a Girl (and Really Steal Her Heart)

how to romance a girlLet’s pick up where we left off in “How to Build a Relationship” and “How to Make a Girl Fall in Love with You.” As I mentioned previously in our relationship series, no matter how hot she is and how many options she has in guys, and no matter how much of an ice-queen she may appear to be on the surface… the reality of the situation is, it’s never an impossible task to figure out how to romance a girl because she’s likely not happy with her love life.

You cannot imagine how frustrating it is for women that they can’t seem to find a good guy!

If she’s very hot, this is even more frustrating… because now she really starts to question everything: “If I’m as beautiful as everybody always says I am, then where’s my prince? And what’s wrong with ME that I can’t find the right guy?”

I know, it’s outrageous… you’re probably thinking – what are they talking about? I AM a good guy… I’m right here… and I even approach them, what’s the matter with them?

The thing is, a good man, and one that is good enough for that kind of high-caliber girl, really IS exceptionally rare… and if you shape yourself into that kind of man - if you ask the question“ What do girls look for?” and then you go and become that - you will have a LOT of choice and power with women.

But that is exactly her dilemma… not only are these ideal guys one in a million, but they also have so many options that they’re very hard to nail down.

Ricardus DominoAbout the Author: Ricardus Domino

Ricardus was one of the most prolific and respected coaches in the men’s dating advice industry. He’s dated some of the planet’s most beautiful women, ranging from a Miss World contestant, to a model for Coca-Cola, to one of “Brazil’s Next Top Models.” His specialty is daytime street stops. He is most remembered for his “Are you single?” opening line. Ricardus is currently retired from the dating advice industry.

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10zen's picture

She never really said that she loves me but you can easily tell she loves me too.

We have this castism system here. Things are changing rapidly but still she is one of those typical girls who would do anything their parents tell to do. And her parents will choose a guy for him and she would have to marry him. We got close but now her bachelor studies is going to end in about a year her emotional system is kicking in. She's doing everything to avoid me and to let me go away. She gets angry and says different. I can tell that she was just waiting for the excuse and have been planning to say those things. She had this absolute belief that her parents won't consent our relationship no matter what.

Therefore whenever I ask her to go out somewhere or some seminar that would help improve her studies, she won't go. It won't happen so why to continue at all she says. She doesn't want to get too close and don't want to get hurt. It understandable.

What can I do in this situation? I want her to open up to me and trust me in things I ask her to do. I am absolutely certain that I can persuade her parents but she has this barrier set up inside that whenever I try to say something she's already in defensive mode like I am trying to ruin her relationship with her parents.

harrist's picture

if I were you, I will find another women! because even if I do something about it, and try to get her back, in the end , you'll be on the same situation! another tricks, tell her no matter what do what her parents want! and said, if I were you I will do the same thing! the idea is to clear her doubt about you! whether you worth or not! and don't chase her, cause if you do, you doom! :P

Nicholas599's picture

Hey Ricardus,

Thanks for the great insights in this article.

About the movie quote “You like to play games and always be in control so you never get too close.”, this is from the movie "The Sweetest Thing". Thomas Jane puts Cameron Diaz in her place with this line. Youtube link of the scene:

This sentence did create attraction, but in the overall, I consider the guy to be quite bad with women. What's your opinion?


Anonymous's picture

Hey Ricardus,

Thanks for all the articles you wrote, they really built me into the man I am today.

I met this girl who tells me that she doesn't hook up with anyone she isn't in a relationship with, AFTER we hook up. I saw this as a good thing, thinking that I had bypassed that restriction she had placed on herself. After several days we set up another meet and she reminded me of her rule. I decided to call her out on it and she became defensive. She responded that she does not avoid intimacy, but instead hooking up makes her feel used and like sh*t. I responded to her in a serious tone I am not that type of guy. In response she said she was sorry and confused so I eased her mind my telling her I enjoy spending time with her. Did I do the right thing? And what should I do now?

Anonymous's picture

“You like to play games and always be in control so you never get too close.” -- Its from 'He's Just Not That Into You'

Anonymous's picture

you quoted a line from a movie you could not remember and 2 help you out its called anger management with adam sandler lol

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