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Use Caution When Introducing Friends to Girlfriends

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Mon, 02/14/2011 - 01:13


Just made it back to town after three weeks back home. Was great seeing family and friends; got to eat at a lot of good restaurants, hit the desert, and do some snowboarding. Fun trip.

Top priority on returning was seeing my new girl. Wonderful girl, very cute and pretty, dresses very fashionably, very smart, with an insatiable curiosity, educated, good career, very ladylike yet very confident and ambitious. Pretty inexperienced in the way of things; she’d only had one lover before me, and it’d been two years since she’d been with a man at all. She didn’t even like sex, and had some issues with dryness and chafing. I spent the weekend getting her comfortable with intimacy with me, taking her from reserved about it to throwing herself into it over the course of a few days. She spent a great deal of time opening up to me about all sorts of things, and we had a great few days together. At one point she mentioned wanting to give me a child, which is something that, at age 28, I’m becoming more and more interested in pursuing with a really great girl. It was a good weekend.

Yesterday at midday a close friend of mine called to ask if I’d like to grab some lunch with him, and I said sure and that I’d bring my girl along. I’d just helped my pal navigate a bunch of sticky situations with some women in his life, so I knew he was going through a bit of a rough patch, but he’d always been tactful before and I assumed he would be this time as well in front of my girl.

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Hey Chase

My name is Masande all the way from South Africa and I'm grateful for all the wisdom you instill in the minority of men who actually see Women and Seduction for what it is rather than what Society wishes it would be.

I would really love to hear your views on a Womans Friends the people she surrounds herself with and how it could impact our relationship(positive and negative) .

I've dated girls who fully submit and follow my lead but the issue always comes with their friends. My ex girlfriend was very Submissive even though she is a really challenging girl.
She would always let her friends mislead her and instill negative thoughts of how all men are trash because of their own personal experiences.

My current girlfriend is also allowing her friends to mislead her and whenever I tell her straight up that her friends aren't really good for her
She will defend them even though she truly knows what they are doing is wrong and will have negative consequences.

So I really would love to know what's your take on this should I just stop concerning myself about my girlfriends social circle or should I just find more Independent women/ Loner Girls or women who don't have that much of a big social circle?

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Yes, that's annoying behavior when you encounter it.

I've quoted your comment and addressed your questions in an article -- you can find your situation toward the tail end of this piece:

What Do Your Girlfriend's Friends Say About Her?

Hope it helps,


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