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How I Meet Girls: A Step-by-Step Breakdown for Killer Success

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“Whatever you do… don’t hook up with the brunette!”

how i meet girls

I closed my phone and looked around… how could he possibly have known that I was with this girl… and why was he telling me to keep my hands off her?

Did he know her… and WHAT did he know about her?

I couldn’t think of anything. After all, I hadn’t been introduced to her through my social circle… in fact, that’s not really how I meet girls at ALL; I almost never meet women that way.

I much prefer striking up conversations with total strangers.

No messy politics, no gossip, no social scheming, no drama.

Just me and a girl… and all the exciting things we can find out about each other and experience together.

Breakups are a lot less messy too if you don’t have a lot of friends in common.

But back to the brunette, and back to the “Boots on the Ground” series - here’s how I had met her, and some takeaways you can use TODAY to improve your dating life…

Ricardus DominoAbout the Author: Ricardus Domino

Ricardus was one of the most prolific and respected coaches in the men’s dating advice industry. He’s dated some of the planet’s most beautiful women, ranging from a Miss World contestant, to a model for Coca-Cola, to one of “Brazil’s Next Top Models.” His specialty is daytime street stops. He is most remembered for his “Are you single?” opening line. Ricardus is currently retired from the dating advice industry.


Mikel 's picture

Hey Ricardus, what do you and Chase think about Justin Timberlake? Seriously when you just see all the women he's been with, we all have to admit that's pretty amazing. What do you guys think is his "thing"?

Ricardus Domino's picture

Fame... it is the ultimate aphrodisiac. You can think of it as a Social-Proof-A-Bomb.

Dick's picture

Hey guys. Nice post, like usual! I had a question, if anyone can help me out. I've got a date next week, with probably the hottest girl I've ever gotten a date with! Problem is, I live with my mom and I'm 24.. Though I have lived on my own before. I'm nervous as to what I should say if the question gets asked? Lie?

Ricardus Domino's picture

Thanks Dick. The more important questions are these: (1) where do you intend to sleep with her? And (2) why do you live with your mom? Your answer to question 2 will shed light on how to frame your situation if she asks (which she probably won't)... but your answer to question 1 is much more important for the outcome of your evening.

Question 1: If you take her home, will there be an awkward moment where you have to introduce her to your mom? Or do you have your own apartment in your mom's house? Or is your mum religious and conservative and going to raise hell if you have a girl over for the sake of debauchery under her roof?

Question 2: Do you live with your mom because you don't have a job... or because you don't know what to do with your life? Those are not things you want to tell her if that's the case, and they're also things you want to change ASAP. Or do you live with your mom because you're bootstrapping your own start-up and cutting back on costs for 6 months until you start seeing six figure revenue... a lot less uncool!

Hope that helps!

Dick's picture

Thanks! It ended up not coming up, like you thought. Two very good answers, though, I appreciate the help! Question 2 is something I need to work on. I don't have much idea what I want to do with my life, but that's something I've never been able to figure out. I've got a great paying job now though, so I should gtfo. Lots to think about.

If you're wondering, we ended up going to her brother's house of all things. We made out for awhile, but she silently stopped me when I tried to take things further. The post about tearing off her panties sprung to mind, but I'm pretty sure that wouldn't have worked for me! Ha, still more than I ever thought I would get on a first date, and for that I have you and Chase to thank ;)

Ricardus Domino's picture

Cool man, sounds like you're on your way mate. And yeah, if you can afford it you should definitely move out. I like to say that I take care of logistics months before I ever approach a girl - meaning, when I choose my apartment. It needs to be in a central location, and ideally walking distance from nice bars or even better, venues where you can chat up women during the day.

Anyhow, Rome wasn't built in a day and it sounds like you're seeing good improvement, so keep it up!

malcolm's picture

Hooray Ricardus has finally responded to comments ;) I have a quick question Ricardus. Have you ever had any success with online dating? There's this guy I follow who says he mastered online dating. His name is blackdragon. What are some good first messages that I can send to women online to get responses? Also it would be cool if you could write a post on a conversation example that you'll typically have with a woman. Thanks Ricardus :)

Ricardus Domino's picture

Hey man, yeah - I've hooked up with plenty of girls I had met online... it's a lot easier than approaching girls. There is no approach anxiety, there are no rejections, and you can do hundreds of approaches at once. I even know guys who have written a piece of code to send thousands of emails out, then they just sort through the responses and pick the prettiest girls.

If a girl is willing to meet you in person from online, you'd actually have to make a major mistake for her not to hook up with you... she's looking for a guy, she's interested in you, and she's come all the way to see you.

I don't know blackdragon or his method, but I'm going to write something about meeting women online soon.

blazerfury's picture

How do we setup a phone / zoom consult?

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