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Don't Tell Women Your Weaknesses

Chase Amante

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Sometimes you want to open up to a girl and tell her your fears and weaknesses. But this behavior itself is a weakness – and you should not indulge it.

I have seen a certain behavior since I got into the seduction community that seems to be fairly common.

It is a behavior of men seeking to bond with women by opening up about their weaknesses, foibles, and fears. Or else seeking to use women as de facto therapists.

The end result is rarely what the man hopes for: instead, it hardens the woman on the man, turns her against him, and leads to him (the man) getting hurt.

Every time I see a man do this, my reaction is, "Why would you do that?"

And a lot of the time the man will answer with, "I thought she would care about me," or, "I just wanted to feel accepted," or, "I thought it was safe to open up to her."

Or they will say, "I thought women liked vulnerability."

It is true, women do like vulnerability. However, they like strong vulnerability.

They despise weakness.

Women are not cruel by default. But they very often are cruel to men they view as weak. This is an important principle to understand: women are kind to strong men, and cruel to weak men. This is because women adore strong men, and women despise weak men.

Even women with good hearts. Even women who do not want to hurt anyone. If you show weakness (not vulnerability, but weakness) to a woman, she is going to feel the emotion of disgust. She may be self-aware enough to resist this emotion, and recognize an injured soul and tell herself to feel compassion for you, but she is still going to be disgusted nevertheless.

You must not go around showing or flaunting weaknesses to women.

Especially not women you want to sleep with or have any kind of ongoing relationship with.

Chase AmanteAbout the Author: Chase Amante

Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone. So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating. After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website. He will teach you everything he knows about girls in one single program in his One Date System.



mich.nguyn's picture

In my opinion most likely crying was caused by hard drugs, I had random crying moments after using hard drugs.

Pez Koi's picture

Hi Chase, great article. I just wanted to clarify how to increase and understand emotional strength or strength of character better are there any resources to improve this or learn more about it. I still don’t understand what emotional strength is? Also for the weakness does that just mean fears or does emotional weakness encompass more things. The other articles helped me understand weaknesses vs vulnerabilities though! Thanks!

Yuppy's picture

Hey Chase, perfect timing on this article. I'm in an LTR of 3+ years and recently had a minor set back on my startup venture and fell in to a rut for a few weeks before i picked my self up and bounced back and moving forward again with my startup. But man did i show quite a bit of "weakness" during those weeks when was i whining, feeling sorry for myself for putting myself in that situation where i had the business set back. It even got to a point where she said she doesn't like seeing me in a rut and being down etc..... So this article really resonate with me at this time. So keep up the great work.

Separately your choice of topics especially on those articles related more to philosophy or more of a philosophical touch are also really good to read. Always enjoyable to get a philosophical pov as it's a long term mindset thing, so keep those coming.........


PS. You think you can write some articles on LTR related to parenting and keep it fresh between the two partners. having kid(s) really strains LTRs.

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