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Women can tell you what things they want in a man… if you listen to their choice of insults. Things they might never admit consciously come spilling out.
Well, there you are online, minding your own business commenting on something, when what appears but a wild Angry Female Commentator!
And boy is she miffed!
She pulls out a few select stingers from her bag of Mean Things To Say, and ouch, they hurt!
You retreat to lick your wounds, smarting from a quick blast of pointed verbal abuse from some woman you don't know, who disagreed with what you had to say.
It's a not-uncommon scenario guys run into on the Internet. Sometimes in real life, too.
Even if you're more 'lurker' than 'participant', you've no doubt seen scads of men shredded by Angry Female Commentators in various comment sections of various websites... or at various parties or other social events.
'Small penis', 'lives at home', 'just a misogynist', and various other slanderous/libelous statements are such aggravated women's stock-in-trade.
However, if you look behind the words, there's an interesting psychological curiosity people communicate when they launch their insults.
That is this: we only insult people on measures we personally care about.
Put another way, by looking at women's insults, we can get a view to what things women want in a man... and also what they don't.
Comments
"I bet you're a one minute
"I bet you're a one minute wonder"
"Wanna know why I'm a one minute wonder?... cuz you'll wonder why you didn't need longer than a minute ;)"
In all honesty, great article Chase! Just had that funny line pop into my head as I read along lol
Hey Chase,
Hey Chase,
It's Renée here (founder of The Feminine Woman). I believe you've spoken to my hubby before.
Just stopping by to say I've been enjoying a few of your articles on this site. Very engaging writing.
On the 'he has no friends' insult, I agree that when a man and woman first meet, they will place importance on whether their love interest has any friends or not.
Over time however, I've come to realise that there's only limited time in the day for men and women, as such it's made me realise that what we're actually looking for is the social value that a person has. For example, it's ok if a mate doesn't have too many cool friends, as long as they actually have social value. If someone knows how to connect with others and has that ability, that's where the real juice is.
Anyway, just sharing my thoughts. Great articles! Good on you.
Renée.
"A man who has never done
"A man who has never done anything with his life, who has never won in any way, who is in a state of perpetual loser-dom, is the ultimate in unattractiveness to women."
Wow! No wonder I suck with women! This is me too a T.
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