When approaching a woman, much of our anxiety comes from not understanding her perspective. This mindset tweak will help unburden your ego and smooth things out for you.
Contents
1. Women See Things Differently
3. Turning Around Unreceptive Responses
The assumption with approaching a woman is that you want her to become your lover, and because of that assumption, you probably start off approaching girls you think are going to be easier to handle if rejected, or girls you feel are less likely to reject you.
Approaching women is a unique difficulty that usually only men have to face. It is a startling requirement that tips off women so dramatically of your interest in them that it can cause you to feel helpless and very vulnerable.
So how can you start approaching a woman with confidence like the kind of man she would like to be approached by and want to attract? How can you stop overcompensating because of your fear of rejection?
Here are some ideas.
Comments
Great focus. I tested it and
Great focus. I tested it and i feel this is very true to what like 70% of women feel like in the midst of the connection. Aka it depicts what i see in their eyes well. what i sense from them upon my engagements. I havent seen anything this precise on that dynamic before.
When taking the focus it automatically provides 1) sensitivty to her - a state of sensing and 2) a strong and confident position to work from. At least for me.
Add the earnest vibe you discuss in your podcast to it and some purposefulness in your presence and it provides for a powerful opening model w. very attractive presence. And a much more true model for a more precise engagement and understanding of dynamics.
This is a great gift to share w. us - thank you.
Terrific article
Hi Cody,
one of the best articles I've read here on GC. It gives a deep insight into female psychologie. It is really a wake-up call for every man. Simply act relaxed around women. It really works!
But as far as I understood this article it supposes that you got an approach invitation. Is that right?
T.
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