One minute, she’s into you; the next, she’s gone cold. Why does
this happen? Well, because if you’re not climbing a ladder, you’re
sliding down a chute.
I like video game analogies for explaining social situations, but there is one element to a video game that sadly does not apply to real life.
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When it comes to women, there are no save points and no pausing.
Take the Dark Souls games – although you get save points, there is no pausing. If you go into the menu during the game, it continues without you. Enemies can still attack you. Think of life this way.
Or more accurately, you may be old enough to remember the board game Chutes and Ladders, a modern take on the ancient Indian game Snakes and Ladders.
You roll the dice. If the roll brings you to a ladder, you climb up the board. But if you roll onto a snake, you slide back down to the snake’s tail. This can happen even if you’re only steps away from winning the game.
Seduction and relationships are like this. There are ladders, and there are chutes.
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nice.
What a Great article ! Easy to read,simple enough and drives a point Through.
The landscape of the board is always changing. Amen.
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What about girls in your social circle l you know from work that you aren't dating,but who find you cute and give you signals of interest,but you don't make a move because you have no idea what you're doing because they have a bf or you just dont know how to create a good moment to ask them out. Months pass by when you first meet them and they're not as warm and friendly as they used to be when they first met you. Is this just a case of attraction expiring?And can anything be salvaged?
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Hector, wow this article was a bomb, if you still can't get the basics of how dating works after reading this, ur relationship situation can't be saved, thank you fam.
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This article seriously worked in my mind..
Truthfully after reading some of articles in this website one might go what’s to do now?!?!
This article and esp some of hectors are well structured
Write more philosophics Hector!
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