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The Look: Make Your Eye Contact Piercing

Chase Amante

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Chase Amante's picture

One of the most powerful means of communicating with others nonverbally is by calling up your most piercing, incisive eye contact.

I sometimes also call this the “death stare” or the “predatory look.” It’s the ability to stare into someone else and make her feel as though you’re staring directly into her soul... sizing her up... preparing to DO something to her, though she can only guess at WHAT.

piercing eye contact

This is one of those things that can be extremely effective wielded properly – it can shoot sexual tension through the roof, make you physically intimidating even to men twice your size, and communicate “I mean business” to anyone and everyone like nothing else really can (although it can also send you directly to creepy guy land if you aren’t careful how you deploy it).

Early on in life, I learned that not everyone had this ability – in fact, few did. A high school English teacher of mine described it as “the ability to stare at someone and put fear into his heart just with a look.”

But you can also use it to put warmth, arousal, inspiration, or just about any other emotion into another person’s heart as well.

That same high school English teacher of mine described this as something you either have, or you don’t... but I’ve heard that said about LOTS of things I’ve gone on to learn or teach, and I’d be surprised if this is any different.

I’ve never tried to teach this before because I didn’t really know how to teach it... at least for me personally, it’s something I’ve always had (from the day I was born, according to the stories).

However, in the interest of giving it a good crack – because it’s an awesome power if you can attain it – I’d like to try.

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freznedz's picture

Are you referring to the other person's right (my left) or my right and their left? And why does the particular eye matter?

Stuart's picture

Chase I'm soooo glad you did this article. I feel like eye contact is the biggest opportunity to separate you from "most guys" and I feel like I'm fairly good at it. I have one question, you said "You may also at times opt to stare into just one eye – staring into the right eye gives you a very aggressive feel, while staring into the left one gives you a weird kind of uncertain feel" which right, my right or her right?

David Riley's picture

Hey Guys,

I'll send a message to Chase to have him clarify what means exactly.

Just Dave

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Chase Amante's picture

Stuart-

That'd be her right (on your left, looking at her face-to-face) for the aggressive/predator feel, or her left (on your right) for the kind of weird / distracted feel (I don't know if there's really a good time to use this one, but you can always experiment).

Chase

Stuart's picture

Chase-

I was afraid you were going to say that. I feel more comfortable looking into their left eye (my right) so that's what I've been doing. Sucks knowing that I've been giving the "weird/distracted" feeling this whole time. Thanks for clearing this all up.

David Riley's picture

Hey Stuart,

I know how you feel it's always those "little things" that can end making a big difference in the long run. An ironic story I have about eye contact, happened when my eye was twitching for about a couple weeks. It caused from stress and fatigue. I would meet a really pretty girl, but as soon as my eye would start twitching I would become self conscious and avoid eye contact. I would talk to a couple girls, sometimes closing my eyes instead of making fierce eye contact. I manged to do number pulls and a couple dates, but nothing happened during that period.

Once I noticed my twitch going away, interactions were a lot more successful. Eye contact is one of the best tools for seduction. It's really awesome how you can communicate so much through non verbal communication. When you really begin to master eye contact, your results will go way up.

Take care,

Just Dave

J.B's picture

I have this. You're right it is hard to explain how to use it. But this is how I draw women in without trying. I stare into space somewhat intensely and women take notice and look at me discretely. Also, when talking to a cute girl, my piercing, sexy eye contact just builds more trust and a connection between us, making it easier to use less words instead I use a sexy voice and deep eye contact to make my desire known. It is why I need less "filler" in conversation and more direct flirting to weed out uninterested girls. When I get mad, you will know and will back off without hesitating; my stare is that piercing. Few people have this and use this skill properly, I call it "the look of experience", because women can tell or are tricked into thinking you've seen and done things other men haven't and that is sexy to them. Good to know I'm one of the few.

David Riley's picture

Hey J,B.,

I'm co-signing you post, and I want to expand on some things. This is one of the reason why we express sexy eye contact because like you mentioned it makes your life easier. It helps your overall vibe, and draws people to you like Chase mentioned. A lot of guys shoot themselves in the foot when they avoid eye contact or stare at the ground. It does them no justice and only makes their life harder. Once again thanks for sharing the great points!

Take care,

Just Dave

J.B's picture

Thanks. Haven't seen you on the forum lately, what's up? (It's Eternity)

David Riley's picture

Hey Eternity,

Just living the dream mate, I work 40 hours a week. When I'm not there I help with the comments. From there I normally travel on the weekends, I try to get to the forums when I can though,

How are you though?

Just Dave

J.B's picture

Not bad. Got out of a bad depression, getting back on my feet. It's good to know you're still around, I was thinking of the board members who first started the forum. It's been a trip I can definitely say...

David Riley's picture

Glad to hear that you're getting out of the funk of depression. I know how much it can be a drag to be going through it. I appreciate the fact I can still be around to interact with you guys. The forums are a great place to be, and I'm very happy to be part of it. I'm actually happy they're still going strong. I enjoy hearing of everyone's success and progress whenever I'm on it. It's definitely a great community.

Torus's picture

Hi Chase, you just amazed me again by writing about a current topic that you interests me and that I have never read before (and I study a lot! ).
I can totally agree on what you say: looking at a girl like this has a profound affect on her - as well as me.
I noticed that if I really focus on her, I draw in her whole attention, I get every subtle reaction herself. I for example did it with a really observant girl, who had a hard time opening up. I basically did a hot read, telling her how she feels about life, and her reaction guided me along. The way she happily teared up, showed me without any words, that I got deeper than anyone before. Also the change in me is interesting: I could articulated new wisdoms so clearly for the first time, that I wished I had written them down. I noticed that we mirror each others tiny facial expressions, so it is not static. Coming out if it is also quite intense. Like returning from a different realm. Quite often the girl sighs heavily and has to reorient herself in the room.  But I cannot do it with all girls though, I think many shy away from this intensity.

I have also found a forth look:
I call it the archetypical look:
You look at her whole face for a longer time without moving your eyes at all and become quite unfocused so that you see her whole facial expression at once. Than I notice that her features change in a morphing way, to the extend that she looks like a different person. E.g. like an old wise woman or with animalistic characteristics. You just have to allow your mind to go there. My explanation is that our visuals system gets habituated to the constant visual stimulus and kind of takes it as the new neutral baseline, so that random small fluctuations seem to be big in contrast and are constructed to a different face.
I don't believe there is higher meaning in what you see, but the effect is mutual. Without priming, the girls asked me how I did that and report, that they saw me as a Lion, a knight or with a long beard. Especially fun with spiritual girls.
Would love to hear if you can do it, too!

Stacey's picture

I recently moved into a new neighborhood several months back, and after finally settling in was when my neighbor starting staring at both me and my kids . However, to be clear his stares were mostly directed towards me. He came off a bit creepy, cold, harsh, and even stoned faced as if in a trance. Well that was last year as I've been avoiding him since then. Now this year ... now that me and my kids are more out doors working in the yard or playing the same guy still stares, but this time more intensely. The ice was broken a little one day as he always... sitting outside ordinarily making sure his lawn chair is faced towards my direction this time really close to my side of the yard. He had company that day and his guest said hi to me I said hi back and smiled to my surprise he spoke said hi and I kept it moving. Even after all that he still stares emotionless never saying a word, so I just pretend he does not exist. I'm a single mom, and certainly not interested. You'd thought he'd got the hint with me avoiding him sadly no :( not sure what to do. I can only pray that my land Lord put up the privacy fence soon!

Mike's picture

I have to say, after reading this it appears clear that your teacher was right. This definitely isn't something that can be taught. I regularly utilize most of the things you consider off-limits and have great success with them, like shifting my gaze from eye to eye. Apart from my ridiculous height and the associated physique, my piercing blue eyes are the number one thing commented on by women and even some men.

Basically, the fact that we have totally different methods for using our eyes as an attractive quality is proof that it's not something that can be taught. Everyone looks unique, so there's no way you can teach someone how to utilize the most unique physical feature of their body, I will vary wildly from person to person, and someone with beady eyes, for example, will never have that piercing look, no matter how they use their eyes.

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