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Her Sexual Availability? Vital to YOUR Sexual Success

I think that one of the most under-discussed topics in seduction is sexual availability.

What is sexual availability? Sexual availability is not only whether or not a girl has other men in her life (which she does 90% of the time), but also the extent to which she is satisfied with consistently having sex with one or more of these men.

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It doesn’t matter if you have the tightest game. It doesn’t matter if you’re an extremely high-value man. If you don’t understand sexual availability, you will experience much more frustration and confusion toward women than is at all necessary.

So today I’m going to outline and explain this concept, and more importantly: delve into why it’s important.

Colt WilliamsAbout the Author: Colt Williams

Raised in the American Midwest, Colt Williams made a name for himself in dating with a style based on soulful poetic seductions and playful dance floor antics. His style is all about inspiring girls and drawing them into one’s world. You can book phone coaching with him here, or get a copy of his guide to getting laid on Tinder, the product of months of study and experimentation by him on the medium.


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Anonymous's picture

Sucks for guys like me that live in the middle of nowhere (for a job), have to drive 2 hours to get to a major city, and rely on online dating for this very reason. Been several months now since I had my account and a few communications, but they go cold and I've landed zero dates. Seeing this article on how women just want to be comfortable by maintaining the status quo and likely turning me down because of distance is disheartening, to say the least.

At least my leg-up is to continually improve myself as a man and to start moving towards fulfilling some of my life's dreams. You guys continue to give me the spirit and the motivation in moving towards the right direction.

David Riley's picture

Hey Anon,

Way to stay positive, I like how you're examining your situation and noted the things that are roadblocks, but you're still navigating the road to become better. That's very great to hear! I wish you success as you continue to develop yourself and your skills.

Take care,

Just Dave

Franco Lombardi's picture

Enjoyed this one, Colt. Fortunately for me, in terms of longer-lasting relationships, I've been the guy who's not only been higher value and most dominant but also the most convenient.

I've watched girls I've hooked up with the first few times slowly respond less and less to other guys she was "talking" to until the point that she doesn't even respond anymore (or the guys stop contacting her -- probably in their own best interest, anyway).

So in one sense, I know what it's like to be the guy that cuts off all of her orbiters and other sexual options because I've seen it happen first-hand. As the guy who IS her best and favorite sexual option, it's important to understand that this is the case so that jealousy and other relationship-inhibiting behaviors don't pop up. If your her man for sex, then you're her man for sex.

Anyway, this was a great read, and I think it's an important step toward abundance mentality to know that it's not always YOUR fault if a girl can't be with you. Sometimes you can be perfect, but the situation is anything but (perfect).

Thanks, Colt!

- Franco

ExpectTheBest's picture

Hi Chase,

I've been a member on this site for over a year now. I've always liked your site and advice. However, you sorta hurt my opinion of you and this site with a recent email.

In your weekly email, you sent "Hold Her Accountable, And COMMAND Her Adoration". In it you had a link to "Sexual Decoder System". I clicked the link and watched the vid, even though I had no clue who the guy was, I trusted it because the link was in one of your emails.
The product offered in the vid had lots of great promises and, seeing as I've purchased from you, I figured I'd get this product as well. -HOWEVER, not only is the product not as described in the video, the product is completely non-existent!
The video advertised some learning "modules" that I would get access to after paying. They were supposed to be a set number of videos that contained info on decoding a girls signals and 3 words that would help you capitalize on this and etc. etc. etc. But all I got linked to after I payed was a lame site that's no more than a knockoff of this one.
-No confirmation email, nothing.

I've made an attempt to contact "gotham dating club llc" in order to get my money back. (This all literally just happened)...I don't get why you would send members links to scams in your emails...I'm hoping this is a big misunderstanding.

Please respond as soon as you can,

Chase Amante's picture


Can you shoot an email to us using the contact page with all your data on this purchase? What email you used, your name, etc. Genaro will make sure everything's sorted for you (products in your hands or refund, whichever's preferred).

Craig's most certainly not a scammer... he's been around in this niche for a long time, and he's always been very fast at responding to my own emails whenever I mail him (a lot more responsive than I am!). My guess is the confirmation email simply got lost in the ether, but whatever the case we'll get to the bottom of it.


ExpectTheBest's picture

Hi Chase,

I've sent an email to Genaro. Gotham has also contacted me, I believe they also think something went wrong with the email reception. I have also sent needed information to prove I'm me and purchased the product.

Thanks for your prompt reply, I'm believing this will all be sorted out soon,

ready's picture

This post is very soothing. I may have run into the very same situation with a girl I have been seeing. We hooked up recently and it was a blast then I did not have the chance to have sex with her on our next date, by the next time I called her up, she was very cold on me and even began seeing other guys.

Now I must add that we have been on and off again, almost like the cycle of break up and get back together but I think I pushed it with the last time I ignored her clear signals for sex that I guess she just shut down!!

Reading this post again shows she may be looking for something more long term than I am.. also with a few other hook ups I've had.


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