How do you know which
nightclub is good to meet girls at? Because it’s almost never the
popular club. Here are 5 signs to help you find the best nighttime
venue.
Not all clubs are equal. Some think that success with girls is all about knowing how to pick up chicks. Yet in truth, it is logistics: everything that surrounds the process plays a key role in the process.
Have you ever noticed how you never or very rarely get laid in those super famous or popular local clubs? Everybody seem to love them and vouch for them, yet every time you head there you get nowhere.
I will discuss why that is so in this post.
In addition to that, there are a few signs one should keep in mind when selecting a venue. These signs will stand out to you after you read this article... Yet these aren’t signs regular men are aware of usually. This post and its five (5) signs will make club game much more enjoyable/effective.
Now keep in mind that no clubs are perfect... Or at least, very few are. However looking out for the best possible venue is key. Clubs that score positive on several of the factors in this post do exist. Yet, there also are far too many clubs that score low on every factor we’ll discuss – and yet those clubs may become popular regardless.
Let us begin with our first sign a club is good to meet girls at, and examine a common misconception... Namely, that huge clubs are the best clubs.
Comments
Club Esker
Are you sure of this, Alek? It used to be a place for gay people - but perhaps the clentelle has totally has changed since I used to hang there with my lesbian friends :-)
Atra
Elsker used to be a one floor LGBT club, but after buying Club Luux (which was next door) adding 2 additional floor to club Elsker. The club is too big to only the the LGBT crowd. What happened was that the club went from purely LGBT into just "very gay friendly". The club is now populare for people of all sexual orientations. Lots of straight people there.
That being said, I used to love going to club Elsker when it only consisted of the first floor - when the place was primarily a gaybar. I had a lot of pulls there. But yes you are right the clientelle has changed. I will be going to Club Elsker next week end. Haven't been out in Oslo in a while (I am currently in Budapest - and Bucharest before that).
- Alek
Thank you
for your reply! I have to check it out!
I'm in Denmark next week, so won't meet at Elsker then ;-)
Atra
Well no worries. I am a regular there. :)
sausage fest
Alex, thanks for the advice about going to clubs with better ratios; I'm tired of going to my local college club that has even ugly sloots acting like hotties because there are just so many men.
raven
Hey man. You are welcome.
Look at the following like "supply and demand". Is the supply low (few women), the demand increases - and vice versa. as the demand increase, women's market value increases. As a man you should stay away from venues with way too many men.
Best,
Alek
One type of venue in particular...
Hey Alek,
Thanks for writing another great article. Anyone working on their night game as well as the more advanced seducers are well served by your writings.
I'd say my experience more or less confirms these 5 signs. I would like to note that there is a specific type of venue I've found that usually checks off all the boxes (and then some.) It's a place where I personally have had a good deal of sucess.
I'm talking about clubs that are either part of or attached to hostels.
They're never the huge, most popular places. While most hostels will at least have a modest bar on the property, the best ones have either a dance floor or a space for live music. They usually have a decent layout that allows for flow of movement and there are always lower energy places where people can come to for conversations.
These places always have a balanced mix of guys and girls, as well as the best mix of travelers and locals. Girls in these places are nearly always receptive to being opened. The travelers are surrounded by strangers, and far away from the typical social pressures they might face at home. I've also found that just being around so many people who are open to meeting and socializing with others really increases my comfort level.
When one is traveling it can be good to scope out these places, either as a place to stay or a place to plan into a night out. It can also be worth it to get to know these venues in the city where one lives.
In my city, one of my favorite venues is a hostel where live funk bands play on most weekends. The inside is intimate and dimly lit and there are plenty of tables and benches set up in the courtyard. A very fertile seduction ground.
Oh, and one more reason these places can be hugely advantageous for a local guy who has their fundamentals handled: The guys who are traveling are usually wearing thowaway clothes and have given up shaving/haircuts/bathing for at least a few weeks. It's not hard to come in looking super sharp and ready to blow away the competition!
Carver Montana
I haven't been thinking about "hostel clubs" until you mentioned it. Fact is last week in Budapest I went to such club and it was pretty good.
Everything you mention about hostels makes sense. I will absolutely keep an eye out for them. I feel like trying to find my local hostel spot :)
Thank you for your input
Best,
Alek
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