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Club Queens is the post we’ve chosen to launch a new series on the Girls Chase blog, entitled Girl Types. Club Queens have always been a bit of a favorite type of woman of mine in particular, so I figured what better girl type to start us out on than them!
Ever notice how in most nightclubs there are one or two women you just can’t miss? They’re gorgeous, gregarious, and charming the socks off of everyone in their proximity. They know their way around people in social situations like the back of their hands, and they’re constantly the center of attention, and constantly seeming to be enjoying every minute of all the attention they receive, as well.
I call these girls “Club Queens.”
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bang on
Your assessment of the club queen type is pretty bang-on. I've made several very strong connections with club queens which have gone to make enduring platonic situations, and after having missed my window I wasted far too much time going out partying with them in the vain hope that THIS TIME I might be going home with them at the end of the night. I even missed out on/knocked back IOIs from women who were probably hotter than the club queen in question simply because I was too busy not seeing the wood for the trees.
Nowadays i would be using them as pivots rather than following them round like a puppy dog!
Predicament
I have a predicament. I'm in a class with A shy excited type, that I was initially most attracted to, and with a club queen. Both descriptions are pretty spot on however I need some advice on how to proceed as I am sure I could attract the shy excited one, and the club queen looks like she is ready to jump my bones. I'm a bit of a natural actor, and am very good at projecting that intelligent, sexy, slow moving, confident man (I am witty and smart, just usually not outgoing). Like you said, the queen picked up on it immediately, and she is really good at projecting that aura of attraction, which has recently been giving me second thoughts about the shy one. Now, I'm pretty sure that the queenish one is a sure thing. She couldn't stop squirming around in my presence, constantly self-touching, and pointing her body at me (like going out of her way to as if she knew what she was doing) as well as shooting looks every 5 mins (I think you get the point). Anyways, I'm just building a base of sexual experience, and I was wondering which one would be the healthiest pursuit for my self-improvement. I could really go either way, but I was also wondering a couple other things. When starting out in these sort of things should you take the easy ones for the experience first? I don't think I have the experience to handle the shy one. The Queenish one, I think, would be a great experience for a beginner, as I am new to relationships (and not sex) and would do better with a sexual partner. Now the shy one, on the other hand, I feel like I would have to win her over before anything sexual could occur, thus the bigger challenge. My second question is that, since these girls are both in my class, would it be possible to have them both. Seduce the queen, then confess feelings to the shy one. I hate these situations as I am soo indecisive, I feel hesitant about going either way, I wish I could have both. I favor the queen as she seems more sexually apt, and the shy one definitely hasn't been liberated. I get sexual fast, so I want a girl who is very comfortable with my sexuality, as well as her own. So I guess my third question is "which one is more sexually active/desirous?". Also would it be a good idea to keep my favorite one in my peripheral as a friend for a later relationship, because, I really really do love the shy ones, they are my idealized girlfriend (at least in my head, never really had a shy excited girlfriend). The shy one makes me feel romantic. The Queen makes me feel lusty lol. I left class today without making any moves because I'm paralyzed by indecision. I guess I'm just worried that the queenish one is just putting on a front, I am slightly suspicious that her actions are contrived, mine are mostly genuine because i actually am trying to change myself. When I'm horny all I think about is having crazy sex marathons with the queen, but when I'm not I think about holding that demure shy girl in my arms. Overall though, I am a mostly sexual person, and my relationship would have to entail a lot of sex. So what is the best course of action?
Attention-seeking drama types?
This is a legitimate question here. I'm very inexperienced and I'm just starting out.
Recently, I had a very negative experience with what you would consider (based on the criteria in this article) a "Club Queen", however, at the same time, this girl exhibited some very unattractive qualities as well that would characterize her as attention-seeking/drama queen type- when we hung out, she was constantly on her phone and not very absorbed in the conversation, whenever there was any conversation it was always about some bad blood between her and one of her girlfriends/guy-friends and members of her group.
Long story short, I became friend-zoned by this girl after revealing to her how I felt (she never even had the decency to respond) but I completely broke it off. This was a year and a half ago. Fast-forward to now and I've been trying to reconnect with her and apply some of the teachings you guys have to share about building up value and attainability, etc. I don't know if I went too far/wasn't clear about my intentions and humor.. but she completely flipped her shit on me and immediately brought up everything that happened in the past! She said I had made her uncomfortable a year ago and that I have emotional issues, etc etc. It was really random and just completely confusing to me. I honestly was keeping it very light and flirty, and never once presumed to go back to what happened before. Perhaps this particular girl I have here is not very adept at reading between the lines? Maybe she has her own emotional baggage clouding the way she perceives things and is now projecting them back onto me? She was very vicious in her response to me- sending me over 20 text messages and then immediately blocking my number! Lol.
Either way, my question is this: are the two mutually exclusive? Can a Club Queen also have some of the attention-seeking behaviors? If she does, then she really isn't a Club Queen, is she? The articles don't seem consistent to me and to reference another topic often written about on here... I'm beginning to feel a little "cognitive dissonance"? ;)
Thanks in advance!
Former club queen
Interesting article, I believe I may be married to a 'former' club queen. She is very beautiful and even though she seems to be settled down with me I do wonder at times if she is tempted to stray one in awhile. Where ever she goes, men tend to gravitate toward her. She is quite serious, likes deep conversations and men will often make their intentions clear that they want a relationship with her even though they know she is married. Any article that you have written on being in long-term relationship with a club queen? If a club queen strays, what would the signs of that be?
Robby
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