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The Strong, Silent Type

One of the things I always look to guide men out of doing, whether I’m coaching them in-person or advising them via phone or Internet or just writing stuff for them to read, is being the entertainer. I touched on this a bit in Acting With Intent and Faux Pas of the Sociaux Nouveaux, and I really ought to write a proper post devoted mostly to this, but the problem in a nutshell with being the entertainer is that you get a lot of false positives.

Chase AmanteAbout the Author: Chase Amante

Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone. So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating. After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website. He will teach you everything he knows about girls in one single program in his Mastery Package.


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Code's picture

Great post chase, I've gained alot of knowledge from you.
For this I thank you.

Another thing is that this is my actual personality.
Looking back at my time at school I had many girls talking and flirting with me out of the blue, if only knew then what I know now.

Thanks again Chase.

Poli's picture


I'm the same personality, I've even been asked why I don't talk much by girls. I used to be to shy, but now I just like talking less. I also remember back in high school I was getting attention, in fact in my drama/ acting class a cute blonde was showing me a arabic mark on her hand(she thought I spoke arabic) and asked me to read it, I just smiled and said I dont know what that is an it became pretty awkward and we didnt talk ever again. A year later i saw her at the mall and she noticed me lol guess what... I still didnt get message lol, good thing I've come across this site still pretty young at 22 so I've got a lot of time to play the "game".

If you chase her once the right way, she will chase you forever

Rhady's picture

I manage to find this article by searching a way how to deal with my silent type girlfriend...and to be honest your advice work for me...thank you for sharing Chase...I am happy now she really attract to me...she also enjoying when we are in conversation...

Anonymous's picture

My personality is the strong slient type and it certainly helps with getting women. Though having good looks charm and being a writer also helps nothing gets a young womens feelings flowing like hearing a poem about how their beauty outshines the gods. The combination of thes things helped me gain attention of multiple attractive women during Highschool dating sisters and attracting their friends as well as my sisters. Some people may say the strong slient type is dying out in this age of noise but it seems to be working just fine for me remember only say enough to wet their appetite the rest is a mystery.

Anonymous's picture

Even the Bible talks about being quick to listen and slow to speak. It also says that there is wisdom in choosing your words wisely and keeping silence.

killerman's picture

Hey Chase, I got a bit of a problem. The other week I started chatting up some girl outside a club and put on the strong, silent type mode on. Gave as little as possible about me away, always giving very vague answers when she'd ask me questions. After a while this drove her crazy with her saying to me "you're so mysterious, i can't suss you out". After a while she said to me that I'd creeped her out and went back inside. Is it possible to be too mysterious and if so how do I scale it down a bit so as to avoid coming across as too mysterious?


Troy's picture

Hey Killerman!

First thing I suggest is join the board's (if you haven't already) and ask your questions there. Chase doesn't reply to questions on the comments regularly. And he doesn't reply to comments on articles that are so old. So if you want a reply then post on a recent article.

It seems that you went over board with being too mysterious. To avoid that happening keep things close to equal. Share a few interesting things about yourself. Share a few jokes and tease and flirt with her. And deep dive. Don't be so mysterious that you seem unattainable . She knows nothing about you and if you don't show her how valuable you are by talking and bringing the energy, she will say you are being creepy. It's not you though. Don't take it hard. Just try a different approach. And I hope it works for you.


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