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This is my second entry into the three part series on The Best College Seduction Styles, a subset of my expansive College Game series.
If you read the first article of the series, detailing my particular style, “Big Man on Campus” (BMOC), and didn’t find its exuberance attractive, then perhaps Slowburn is for you.
If BMOC is Muay-Thai – aggressive and forward – then Slowburn is Ninjutsu – subtle, but deadly when executing precision strikes.
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social circle
From what i see this style is more about working in social circle.. How it works during cold aproach...so to say day game for example
This is more like it
This fits in a lot better with my type of personality than the AMOG guy who is the life of the party. Inevitably, you will have a much smaller social circle with this method, so how would you suggest I expand my supply with cold approaching in a small university if joining a frat isn't an option (I want to, but my parents aren't stupid)?
It seems that most of the hot girls are in sororities and freshman girls are constantly surrounded by cockblocking guys, and that acts as a bigger barrier to entry due to the fact that sisters would much prefer to sleep with guys that they're familiar with (frat boys) and also don't want to be caught as sluts to other sisters (That is, hooking up with a guy they don't know). I know you say to be discreet, but realistically there are limits when the university is small and I just can't seem to break into the sorority bubble. Outcome independence is a must-have for a geeky university like mine where the market is brutal for men due to it being a sausagefest along with a short supply of girls I would ever consider fucking (most of them in sororities). I tried lowering my standards, but I just don't get a boner for fat, hippie, or geeky girls. I also would need to join a lot of clubs in order to just meet a girl I would fuck and in my opinion, I feel that is a waste of time for me if I join a club just to meet girls. Do I really have to suck it up and just wait until I graduate?
Same Issue
Hey uForia, glad you brought this question up as well since I also have the same issue. My university is considered small where I'm from (8000 students but there's also a college campus next door). I don't have a direct answer for your question but one thing I noticed is that it is a lot easier to meet/pull girls if you meet them through clubs/social events then at parties since like mentionned they are often sausage fests and the amount of hot girls present aren't as numerous as bigger universities. Hector did mention he goes to a small college as well so I guess we'd just have to wait for his answer. You don't need to necessarily join a club for the sake of ONLY meeting girls though, find an activity you're interested in and meeting girls through those groups. Personally I found Salsa to be a great way to meet girls on my otherwise small campus and recently joined a running club, meet fit women + stay in shape which is hitting two birds with one stone. Despite the size, there always ways to maximize your results.
This is more like it! I'll
This is more like it! I'll try this out. Seems to be the kind of personality I'm drifting towards.
"“The word slow is in it, man! Didn’t you just tell us that college is SUPER DUPER EXTRA FAST? So isn’t being slow kinda stupid?”
Shut up."
haha
This is actually fairly close
This is actually fairly close to my style in social circle, although I'm not in college and I'm very direct. I have broad circles that lots of women move through fairly quickly, and I rope a few into my 'inner circle' - virtually every woman there is someone I've been romantically involved and broken things off with.
The stark contrast is funny - my broader circle views me as mysterious and aloof and thinks I keep bringing by female friends. My inner circle assumes EVERY cute girl I interact with is on my list of bitches.
So you want to get it in at a Small University?...
First things first gentleman:
"you will have a much smaller social circle with this method, so how would you suggest I expand my supply with cold approaching in a small university if joining a frat isn't an option (I want to, but my parents aren't stupid)?"
As Hector mentioned above, cold approaching should not be your bread and butter. Did it work for me and does it still continue to? Yes. Is it an all the time technique. Not for slow burn my friend. As for joining a fraternity, plenty of our members joined without their parents being savvy. Go at least rush and talk to different organizations about your options. They're familiar with that situation trust me. But I digress...
BACK TO GETTING IT IN
"Do I really have to suck it up and just wait until I graduate?"
NO.
Don't wait. Strike while the proverbial iron is hot, and strike with purposeful indifference. Forward! That is the battle cry. The biggest problem that I have seen, ESPECIALLY on small campuses, is the creation of excuses, and lack of taking action. You can find any reason under the sun as to why things won't work (I'm not in a fraternity, she's out of my league, there's a bunch of guys already talking to her, etc. etc.). Dump that line of thinking and watch this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z_1qY_Bqj5U&list=TLuuB32lsp7l0oO6_Mzb1IV...
The story Hector told about my bonfire interaction happened in a small party setting, there were less than 40 people in the whole backyard, and the girls I wound up interacting with had already been hit on by a fair number of guys, and were in fact on the OTHER side of the circle.
"Ooook Marksman, what's your point?"
The point is with Slowburn, you're capitalizing on confidence, and indifference. You're saying what you want, and not caring if she's coming home with you that night. IT DOESN'T MATTER. You have to be able to sell this. There has to be an air about you that you're there to hang out, meet everyone, and collect some contacts for the evening. Think James Bond, Don Draper, business meets pleasure. Keep in mind that your actions, you're body language, the way you're looking at her, is what is really speaking. You're selling her a slew on innuendos cleverly paraded in front of her, a conversation of light nature on the surface, but sexually charged attraction as an undertone.
"So what's this got to do with me?"
EVERYTHING. There will always be some kind of obstacle in your path. Jealous friends who'll be damned if she goes home with you tonight, someone she's "talking to" right now, last minute resistance in the closing hour on your bed, it doesn't matter. What DOES matter is how you handle it. And you should handle it with a calm, slightly amused indifference. Pure wit is what wins battles in the slowburn arena gentleman, and delivering this with a calm, unshakeable amusement when she tries to rattle your cage will have her impressed at your ability to not let much get to you, and the indifference will set the game afoot when she then begins proving herself. You have to simply trust in that it works, and realize that, when you do fail, you did something wrong, and to look back and try to learn from it. BY ALL MEANS don't blame anything else but yourself, or you'll never get better. In my experiences pick-up is about utilizing as many tools as you can to reduce the chance of rejection as much as possible. Blaming the tool is pointless.
TL;DR Change your thinking. Act more, wait less.
Same Matt that commented from
Same Matt that commented from last article. This article describes me pretty we'll haha. I'm not even in a frat and I'm still able to get hot sorority girls. Since my school has way more guys than girls, most girls have boyfriends that they don't even respect, so I'm able to use my discretion to sleep with these girls, since I'm not in a frat, they aren't worried about the social consequences
It's crazy how much I think
It's crazy how much I think slow burn suits my personality. When I was in college I only fucked one girl and she became my girlfriend. I never tried to go after women because I was a little bitch. Oddly enough women always loved me. Something about me caused women to start chasing all the time. Random girls always trying to chat me up. One time a girl in my class offered to drive me back home after class. I was some kind of mental idiot back then and I pushed all these women away. I kept them at a distance and didn't let them invest in me and never let any of them get close to me. I always brushed them off in the most nice guy way. There was one girl who liked me a lot and even asked for my phone number and tried to ask me out to something and I blew her off. Now I look back on all that and think how I've been such an idiot.
Now I'm 26 and starting to feel like time is moving too fast. I'm much older and I still don't have a lot of experience with women. Women don't really chase me anymore. I think I look more intimidating now that I look older. I'm sick of regrets and wondering what if. I want to transform myself and start living life how I want.
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