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In yesterday’s post on ways you can lose a girlfriend, we went over
the 4 things that can and almost universally WILL lead to the demise of
your relationship (when you’re guilty of them): being too weak,
fighting too much, bad sex, and taking her for granted.
Those things happen. In fact, they happen so much, it’s my (relatively conservative, I think) estimation that they happen 90% of the time… because something close to 90% (or more) of relationships come to an end sometime before death does them part.
Because of that, breakups end up being an inevitable fact of romantic life. Unless you’re one of the vanishingly few people out there who marries his high school sweetheart without ever kissing another girl and the two of you go onto spend the next 60 or 70 years in blissful union (and if you are, hats off to you! But why are you reading this blog?), you’re going to experience a breakup at some point.
And then it’ll be time to move on.
But like I mentioned in yesterday’s post, nobody WANTS to move on.
Everybody wants to know how to get their ex back. At least, everybody searching for information on the topic, that is.
Yet I promised a post to the readers yesterday on putting the past behind them and gearing up for the future. So let’s say you’re one of those few individuals who HAS reached that point where he’s said, "You know what? It IS time to move on."
Once you’ve decided it’s what you want to do… how do you get over your ex?
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need some advices
Well, Ricardus.
That sounds easy, as well as all other post that you and chase have written before.
But I don't really know how to get rid of that feeling as this is the first time I have ever fallen in love with somebody.
That's a girl from college, she's attractive in many ways.
We actually haven't done anything, but I'm freaking vulnerable. I realized I violated all the NO-TO-DO things in all the posts, but I still can't help it.
I know it's bad, I keep asking myself what the F is wrong with me, why there are so many other beautiful girls out there and I don't even bother to think about because of her.
I ran to NYC for 2 weeks, she's kinda faded away but still has a spot in my mind. But don't know why, god just puts her in my class again this semester, fuck, all the shit comes back all of a sudden. I can't leave this school and this place in 2 years because I kinda signed something so I'm restricted.
What can I do?
I appreciate any help.
Thank you.
Jerry
Jerry, you should find the
Jerry, you should find the second hottest girl in the class, or other girls you find attractive and sit next to them. Force yourself to be acquainted with other girls.
Please tell me what to do!
Hi Ricardus!
I liked a girl a few years back and she wanted me as a friend.
I seriously and sincerely liked her and still love her. I cry thinking about her.
When she told she wanted me as a friend..I was heartbroken.
So I tried a few times to get her back. But then I realized that she seriously wanted me as a friend.
I just wanted to see her happy so I just gave up and she thinks we are good friends now.
But even now I cant stop thinking about her. I meet her in class everyday. She calls or texts me every week. She talks to me everyday.
She is on my mind every second. I just cant stop thinking about her.
Also I try to get on with other girls...but I just cant.
So can you please give me some advice?
I am trying whatever you told in this post and yes it helps...but still..
So is there some way I can get her back(I seriously want her!)?
Or should I just let go(which I think I just cant!)?
Thanks
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can't get over my x
Hello i been 4 yrs since my x broke my heart and i still cant get get her off my mind i got back with my son mother and had a baby girl in 2011 and sill think of her everyday what can i do
How do you break up with a girl and not be a dick about it ?
Okay this question might sound silly. Over a month ago I broke up with a girl but the way I did it was pretty harsh. I was with her for about a month and I noticed many diffrences and flaws that made me feel rather bad around her hence my decision. Lately I saw her with another guy and it kind of a bit shattered me inside but also made me realize that I must find a new girl ASAP.
Back to the topic though, it was my first girl ever and the thing is I broke up with her in a few short words and then didn't speak a single word to her ever again. Now some of my friends told me that there is no point in talking to her (especially given the fact that a) if I started talking to her I might get back to her b) she would ask "why" and telling her the truth was a bit out of question.... suffice it to say she was not very exciting in bed..... I believe the term is starfish..) my other friends however told me that I should talk to her because its the right thing to do so to speak.
What is the correct answer ? How do you break up with girls and well leave a good taste if thats possible at all ?
anger towards my ex
So i was friends with this girl for quite a while, she's married... and we eventually fell in love with each other for almost 2 years. I moved for her to another city hoping that one day we'll be together, since her husband is not interested in her sexually and doesn't give her the right attention... After 2 years of the sweetest words that could fill my ears... "I can never live without u", "I want to have your children, I would leave the world for you" ext.... she comes up to me 2 months after I moved, telling me that she wants to fix things with her husband and we should move on with our lives... now this created anger in my heart that sometimes makes me furious... especially when I know all the previously insignificant people in her life now get to spend more time with her than I do.... mind you i'm in a new city where i don't have much friends just a couple and I really want to get over her without being obssesed of what she's doing and is she with another guy... mind you also that when ever i try to step away i'm afraid that she might go out with another guy without me knowing... please help
Heart broken
me and my girlfriend broke up recently.. we had been so through much together. i messed up valentines day by spending in another county for 3 days. she ended up kissing another guy shortly after. anyway things got really good and we were so happy.. few fights but nothing major. all of a sudden she sort of isolated me from her life and when i said it to her she got a bit bitchy about it. shes really attractive and gets a lot of attention from other guys. and when we broke up she went on holidays for 2 weeks so we barely spoke at all. now shes back and she hasn't answered or replied to any Facebook messages. shes back to college and i work in limerick. shes almost 19 and im 24. and she also owes me 300 euro but im afraid to ask for it in case i come across as a pain in her ass and maybe harassing her. should i keep texting and calling or just give her space or end it completly.. !!! Please Please Please help me.
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