How to Have Sex with a Girl You Like in 9 (Straightforward) Steps
Jan 14, 2026
How do you have sex with a girl you like? Step 1: get her one-on-one. Step 2: create sexual tension. Step 3: build compliance. Step 4-9: seal the deal.
Jan 14, 2026
How do you have sex with a girl you like? Step 1: get her one-on-one. Step 2: create sexual tension. Step 3: build compliance. Step 4-9: seal the deal.
Right before you make a move with a girl, doubts kick in, and you chicken out. “Next time,” you tell yourself. But will you do it next time – will there even BE a next time?

She wants a relationship before sex? Some guys are willing to surrender their sexual freedom to bed a girl; but to others, such a deal makes not a lick of sense.

Getting laid is a matter of putting out a sexual vibe, getting horny, and getting naked. Those things are much easier when you’re super comfortable having a penis.

Want an easy way to make a girl want it more in the bedroom? Make your physical escalation go 10% slower than she wants it to go.

When women resist sex, it’s easy to get frustrated. But you can beat this resistance (or often even preempt it) with a little dose of fractionation.

Desire – your real desire – is a deep motivating force and immensely attractive to the opposite sex. Tap into it and use it well, and you can do the near-impossible.

You can undress her yourself. But what if you want to make a woman undress on her own? There are 3 ways: tell her to, use barriers, and take her pants off first.

Drexel Scott talks sex, comfort, and closing at your place with Varoon Raja. Also in this podcast: a discussion of Drexel’s new book, “Straight to Sex.”

You can be classy and a gentleman without sacrificing your sensuality – and in fact, it may well be the BEST way to land the most stunningly beautiful women of all.

Public sex is some of the most heart-poundingly exhilarating sex out there. But before you can get it, you need to know the ground rules.

It’s possible to overcome last minute resistance – but it’s also very possible to set the right sexual frames that you never have to deal with it at all.

Part II of our series on how to get laid consistently with women. Get more tips and strategies to get success with the women you want most.

If you've ever struggled to learn how to get laid consistently this is the post for you, filled with strategies to get you tons of success.
