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What Causes Infidelity – And How to Handle It

what causes infidelityInfidelity can be one of the most difficult things that can happen to you as a man.

Sometimes you feel it coming but try not to admit it to yourself; other times, it seems to come completely out of left field.

Women are such largely emotional creatures, and if you don’t know how to manage those emotions, you could very well find yourself in a world of hurt.

But what causes infidelity in the first place?

Today I’m going to talk about the root causes of infidelity, share a painfully valuable story from my past, and talk about how to spot infidelity before it happens as well as how to handle it if it does happen to you.

Colt WilliamsAbout the Author: Colt Williams

Raised in the American Midwest, Colt Williams made a name for himself in dating with a style based on soulful poetic seductions and playful dance floor antics. His style is all about inspiring girls and drawing them into one’s world. You can book phone coaching with him here, or get a copy of his guide to getting laid on Tinder, the product of months of study and experimentation by him on the medium.


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Anonymous's picture

My girlfriend cheated on me with another guy who i see as a downgrade. Is there any way i can make her regret? Also ive been ignoring her. Is that good?

David Riley's picture

Hey Anon,

The only way to make a girl regret cheating is by:

1. Breaking up with her and making her see the repercussions of her actions
2. Her seeing you with other girls, go out and approach new women
3. Pretending that she doesn't exist like you're doing now
4. Going on smiling, women hate feeling like they meant nothing to you
5. Don't take her back!

These are just a few general ideas, it's unfortunate that this happened to you. Here are some articles to help this not happen again.

4 ways to Lose A Girl
How to Prevent Your Girlfriend from Cheating

Take care,

Just Dave

Pedro Canteiro's picture

As always a helpful article,
I have a request for anyone who can help me.
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Thank you and keep up the good work.

Anonymous's picture

I've cheated on a girlfriend, had a girlfriend cheat on me, and helped tons of girls cheat on their boyfriends. The morality of what I did is questionable.

But there is NEVER any question if your girl cheats on you. End it right there and then and DON'T take her back.

Easier said than done I know. But what I learned from taking my cheating girl back was that it never works. You simply can't trust the other person anymore. You are always suspicious and you really don't care about her anymore. In the last couple months, I stayed with her but I hated her guts. After we broke up, I was still a mess. She messed me up for a long time.

Life is too short to live like that. And there are way too many women on this earth to care about one so much that you can tolerate infidelity.

Don't ever take her back. Set a hard rule that if a girl cheats on you, its game over right there and then. After you dump her, you cut contact for good. Its the only way to deal with cheating.

David Riley's picture

Hey Anon,

I definitely agree with your perspective, guy who usually stay with cheating girlfriends are more likely than not to have her cheat again. As a result she and your peers will lose respect for you. When guys stay with women who cheat they are coming from scarcity mentality mindset. Unfortunately, some women can have a guy's mind so warped that he will tolerate anything from her. I'm happy to hear that you're not that kind of guy.

Take care,

Just Dave

Anonymous's picture

Dear colt,
The atrticle literally made me questioned my game.....I have been dating married women (With clear expectations from the beginning ) for a while.It actually keeps very simple with married woman in the country where i live.My question is is it wrong to be with married woman with their consent and clear expectations ?.Or can i expect an article on dating and gaming married woman without guilt.Request your reply.


David Riley's picture

Hey Anon,

Here's a article about What Women Think of Their Husbands

This should clear things up for you a bit

Just Dave

wardog's picture

...sry to hear that this happened to you, i can only try to imagine how painful it must be to see your girlfriend humping another man right in front of you. I felt the rage coming right up in me when i read this, don't know what i would have done right there. I'm wondering, how did you handle the situation and how did your girlfriend react?

- wardog

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