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Tactics Tuesdays: Command Women (and Have Them Listen)

command womenOne of the hardest things for me to do when I first started out teaching myself how to seduce women was to give orders and command women.

"You mean, I'm supposed to just tell girls to do stuff, and then they're going to, like... do it?" I thought.


And yet, as I started meeting men in 2006 who were already getting the kinds of results with women I wanted, I watched in awe as they commanded women to do things... and the women just did it.

So, I started playing with that myself.

I began with women I knew well. Then women I'd been talking to for a while.

Then I started pushing the limits on my newfound ability to command women.

I started doing it with women I'd just started talking to. With women I'd just met. I even started giving commands to women as the very first thing I said to them.

And it just kept working.

As I went, I learned how to command women better and better, in ways that they instantly followed - voice tone techniques, specific ways of wording a command, and a lot more - that made it easier and easier to pull off seemingly ridiculous things with women I hardly knew. This post is about how to do what I learned to do when it comes to commanding women.

Chase AmanteAbout the Author: Chase Amante

Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone. So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating. After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website. He will teach you everything he knows about girls in one single program in his Mastery Package.


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Eric's picture

Chase Amante's picture

Thanks Eric, that worked perfectly. Much appreciated.


Al's picture


Nice article. Liked the inclusion of sound clips - very useful and keeps things fresh.

The 'have a seat' line gave me a good chuckle. If you told me that recording was Chris Hanson, I'd probably believe you. Very similar intonation.

And that's as good a reason as any to adopt this voice tone. Notice how Chris Hanson pretty much always gets compliance, even though the predator's first instinct is surely to run away.

Hey, if you can make hardened sexual predators bend to your will, that cute, slightly shy girl behind the checkout shouldn't be too much of a challenge right?

As a side point Chase, have you considered writing some articles on sexual technique? The site is getting to the stage now where seemingly every aspect of getting girls has been covered. As far as I'm concerned, this is the only obvious gap.

Following on from the 'Being really, really good in bed' article, I honestly reckon this could be the key to skyrocketing your readers' game.

Let's face it, as long as you have any hangups about your sexual ability, you'll probably never get that all important 'sexy' vibe down. Even if you get your outward fundamentals tight as hell, there will still always be a little voice in the back of your mind saying 'all this game is just bravado man. When it comes to it you probably won't be able to satisfy her.' And I'm sure girls will pick up on that.

In fact, part of the reason why I never used to get girls was because a worryingly big part of me didn't actually WANT to succeed. I desperately wanted to get laid, but at the same time I was afraid to go for the close in case - heaven forbid - I got it. I would rather not try than risk the girl discovering that the confident, charming guy she thought she'd met was in fact shocking in bed.

I've largely cracked that one now, but there's still a part of me that holds back and acts as a less sexual man than I should - because I'm not entirely sure I can deliver as 'that guy.'

However, any time when I have tested out full-on 'eye fuck' mode, it's been absolute dynamite - even with stunning girls. If I just felt qualified to be like that whenever I pleased, I'm sure a whole lot more sex would ensue.

Anyway, why don't you take a seat and let me know what you think man?


Chase Amante's picture

Hey Al,

Ask and you shall receive!

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Benjamin's picture


I'm quickly implementing your strategies and it's getting stronger, and stronger with time. And...

telling females WHAT to do was one of those experiments that *blew my mind* when it worked...because, as you've said, we've been taught to be gentlemen to a *fault*.

Here are a few things I've noticed (that, I'm sure you have too, Chase) in add- ition to what you said:

#1. Females, or...most people for that matter...WANT to be told what to do. I couldn't believe how much happier and attracted women are when the man is the one pulling the reigns...as it should be, but...as it were not taught in western society.

#2. When telling females what to do...if it leads to a good outcome...they'll give you all the credit...and if it's a bad experience...they'll give you all the blame.

Just wanted to add those two points to an already outstanding article that is, from personal experience, 100 percent TRUE.

Gary's picture

This information is Gold...Im definatley going to try it...no wonder pimps get their way all the time...They are really commanding....

Anonymous's picture

Why should one avoid the kiss quickly for a better chance of pulling home later.. ?

Rye Slyer's picture

When I read this tactics, the first thing I thought was: man, this guy knows his sh*t.
Only thing I'd like to point out, was the sentence "don't leave, we just started talking"
The "problem" with this command is the fact you're saying what you don't want them to do.
Your saying that you don't want her to leave (which is, in itself, a very nice thing to do).
What I would say, if I really cared about the fact she was about to leave, would be: "stay here because we just started talking"
Stay here, or sit down.
Worst case scenario would be to grab her arm gently (little to no force) while saying the sentence and looking in her eyes without blinking. Almost as if you're looking through her (don't know if I explain it well enough :-s )
Other than that: Chase, you're the MAN! ;-)

Keep up the good work

Rye Slyer

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