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Sext Like a Pro: Is Sexting Girls Worth Your Time?

sextingSometime back, Franco (a sharp guy in his own right and the moderator of our discussion boards) commented on Chase's article on indirect game, asking the following about sexting:

Sexting. In most of your texting blog posts, you claim to keep texting to a bare minimum. Do you engage in sexting at all, or does it go against your mantra of "busy men don't have time to text?" If you do... maybe a blog post on this would be fun? ;)

Chase has said he doesn't indulge in sexting himself, but as he knows there's some interest in the topic, he asked me if I wouldn't mind tackling it.

Now there's a fun and interesting topic.

So, sexting. Somewhat taboo, but taboo things are intriguing... and I feel pretty well suited to write on this taboo. The only person who is more fit to write this particular article is probably Anthony Weiner.

... but, since he’s not available to write for our site, you'll just have to make do with my guide on the subject.

Read on, and I'm going to tell you everything you need to know about the phenomenon of sexting with girls - including whether it's worth your time (or not).

Colt WilliamsAbout the Author: Colt Williams

Raised in the American Midwest, Colt Williams made a name for himself in dating with a style based on soulful poetic seductions and playful dance floor antics. His style is all about inspiring girls and drawing them into one’s world. You can book phone coaching with him here, or get a copy of his guide to getting laid on Tinder, the product of months of study and experimentation by him on the medium.


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Richard's picture

Colt, I really admire your style and approach to women, it is the most relatable of the writers on this site. Anyway, I come from a newer generation (I'm 18 and girls I talk to range from like 18-22 on average with a little give or take), and I find that they respond well to sexting, maybe it's teenage hormones ;) However, you should've added a pro's and con's type of sub-section in this article. A lot of people don't know that sexting on a regular to semi-regular basis eventually does more harm than good for the relationship or the fling. But great article, very swift and smooth read. I look forward to more from you.

Franco Lombardi's picture

Thanks for getting back to me on this one, Colt! I really enjoy reading your articles -- they are quite inspiring. And I appreciate the kind words.

I look forward to seeing more content from you!

- Franco

Matt's picture

Great article Colt,

But what do you do when you have a very uptight girlfriend who you havent seen for months, so obviously have not been physical with in that time and she is not in the mood for it? I know its better that you at least try it, but at the same time i'm trying to not show too investment so that i am seen as the more secure person in the relationship? so what would be the best way to approach that situation?

Thanks for the help,


Anonymous's picture

Where you said "she will catch on" I so would NOT have caught on. I'm a girl trying to figure out how to do this with a boy. I think I need a different article though. But I did want you guys to know we don't always get these hints..... a cute way I have seen was some one just texting me "Boobies?" :)

Trinity Renee Boyd's picture

I don't know how to sext a boy when they want to I don't know how to do it can you give me some tips

Franco Lombardi's picture


Sexting for women is really quite simple. In general, sexting these days revolves around mildy-nude to fully-nude images being sent back and forth. Most women wear something rather sexy in the mirror (possibly topless, bottomless, or both) and take a "selfie" in front of it -- usually from their best angle to show off their best "assets."

If you have a great ass, then taking a selfie in the mirror of your behind is probably ideal. If you have great tits, then feel free to show off that portion of your body instead. Once you've taken the image, you can even throw in a comment to send with the image such as "just got out of the shower ;)" or "was feeling a bit frisky tonight ;)" to add as a caption. This lets the guy know you're feeling playful and wanting to sext him.

The only other piece of advice I can provide is to not put your face in any sexting photos -- take pictures from the neck down. This is just to protect your identity in case things go south with a guy; you don't want your sexy pics ending up on the internet for the world to see!

Hope that helps. =)

- Franco

Anonymous's picture

First times of sexting will truly suck and may lose some relationships if you try on girls you already know well, but have no strong ties with. It's even more annoying if you do it on girls who you will need to have connections with nevertheless like coworkers and similar fixtures in your life.
Even if you want to apply it in social circle settings you should get primary experiences with girls that are not big deal to lose from your life, because this one truly needs calibration.

Paul-Hardy's picture

Great and so...this you already know.
I got this on my mind, since 5 months now.
My girlfriend, 26, hot and horny anytime, actually NEVER replied to ANY of my sexts. Never happened to me before her. Feels like she has some kind of "hard dick-shield"...
we text, then i put a little spice, nothing happens. ignored. text a bit more, she replies, then another spice of mines...and again. Silence...
The hell...?!?
Any idea on this?

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