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Mutual Escalation

Mutual EscalationToday I am going to discuss a very simple concept that will make your physical escalation smoother, more efficient, and much more powerful.

I am sure the concept won’t sound like rocket science. And I am sure that some experienced players here at Girls Chase probably do this unconsciously, but I’d still recommend they read this post, in order to become aware of what they’re doing.

Others have probably thought about this concept but have only rarely used it in practice, as I seldom see it used by men out there.

Either way, this concept is VERY simple. Beginners, intermediates, and pros will all benefit from learning about it, and I also believe most men will be able to pull it off (as long as you manage to “simply escalate”).

I will call this concept “mutual escalation”.

Alek RolstadAbout the Author: Alek Rolstad

Alek Rolstad launched his pickup career at age 14, an early starter and seduction savant. His unique style of game focuses on “sex talk”: a way to make sex the primary topic of conversation. Sex talk lets the user excite girls rapidly, and filter for girls open to fast, raunchy, kinky one-night stands and sex. Alek plans to offer phone coaching to students of Girls Chase soon… Just as soon as he can find somewhere to hold phone calls on sex talk and threesomes where he won’t be shocking his roommates.

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Sam2's picture

Nice article, Alek!

I have been using mutual touch without being aware of it whenever I felt that the girl was not participating enough in the escalation process.

However, whenever I took her hand to place it on my neck, head, or face I felt that I was becoming needy.... As if I was begging for her touch. The girl would keep her hand there for a minute or so and then pull it away.

My question is...could the girl think "what a loser, he makes me touch him because I don't touch him myself" or is this just a mind game in my head?

Keithcid's picture

Obviously, I'm not aleck, so you can take my word with a grain of salt.
I think, like everything on this site, it's all about balance and limits. You can't go up the escalation window--mutual or otherwise--unless she is comfortable on a "lower level escalation". Likewise, if there is resistance, then simply pull back, then rinse and repeat.

The reason I jacked your question though was to amend it a bit.. In hopes that aleck might chip in, too.
Is there a limit to where this should be done; or rather is there a certain point in mutual escalation in which you should not be directing her hands where you want it to go, but she starts automatically mirroring you? If there is, then can you share your experience about it, and what the most efficient way for you to get there is? And likewise, if it is permissible to keep directing the girls hands (I.e. a passive girl) as long as you don't see resistance even though some time has passed and she is not taking innitiative? I hope this one gets a part 2..

Anonymous's picture

I think the techniques here work with only a certain level of experience on the woman's part. If she is experienced, she won't need or ask for help. She knows what she wants and how to get it. Try a married woman, you'll see what I mean.

If she has no experience, she may or may not be comfortable touching a guy no matter what, but it doesn't mean she doesn't like to be touched. It may be that she doesn't know what she is "supposed" to do. If that is the case, give her some leeway to be comfortable so she is not self conscience. For a zero experience girl, it is all about making her comfortable, and some will really tighten up in a bad way if they are not. In any event, the guy is still dominate! She is about to discover a new part of herself and she needs help to do that. The sex will be lousy anyway until she releases her inhibitions and gets the hang of it.

It is the minimally experienced girls where this technique will come into play because they are seeking permission.

Marty's picture


Very simple question.

Would you do all this only in a totally secluded location (e.g., your place)?

Or could you start it already in the date location (e.g. a cafe)?


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