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How to Pick Up Girls: The Success Factor, Part III

how to pick up girlsNote from Chase: this is Part III of V in our series on How to Pick Up Girls: The Success Factor. Be sure to read How to Pick Up Girls: The Success Factor, Part I and How to Pick Up Girls: The Success Factor, Part II first before reading this post, if you haven't already.

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We last discussed how if you want to be able to pick up girls CONSISTENTLY, you've got to have INTERNAL state control... we can't just leave something as important as the way we FEEL to chance.

Since we cannot influence our emotional brain directly and just will ourselves into feeling an emotion, we need to create the emotions we want through the other two parts of our brain… our logical and physical brains will be our detour.

We can control the neocortex by changing our focus… and we can control our reptile brain by controlling our physiology. If we do both, our mammalian brain, i.e. our emotions, will align with the other two.

Ricardus DominoAbout the Author: Ricardus Domino

Ricardus was one of the most prolific and respected coaches in the men’s dating advice industry. He’s dated some of the planet’s most beautiful women, ranging from a Miss World contestant, to a model for Coca-Cola, to one of “Brazil’s Next Top Models.” His specialty is daytime street stops. He is most remembered for his “Are you single?” opening line. Ricardus is currently retired from the dating advice industry.

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Mello's picture

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Jack's picture

I have to say, you website is the best website I've come across in a very long time. These articles are gold! I've been reading about pick-up for a while, mostly out of curiosity, but you're the first pick-up artist that comes across as someone worth having as a role model :)

I've "known" the things this articles talk about for a while, but the way you put it into words, break it down, and demystify it is just amazing. Anyway, I wanted to share a technique I've found very useful for fixing your vibe almost instantaneously.

1> Quit porn and masturbation. Not sure if it's absolutely necessary, but it gives you that raw energy you talk about that just multiplies the results by 10

2> Meditate every day, just like you say, but with the purpose of building equanimity. The easiest way I've found to build equanimity very quickly is to endure pain and not move. Get into a painful position, ideally lotus or half lotus, set a timer for 45 minutes, and don't move, at all. With your mind, try to stay detached and equanimous, and if you can try to focus on the breath, but don't try too hard because you don't want to deplete your ego. In my experience the first 30 minutes are easy, and the results start coming rapidly in the last 5-10 minutes when you start getting urges to move and you resist them. However, the point (and this is important) is not to resist the pain, the urges and the other stuff that comes up, like strong emotions, images, etc., by willpower or by grinding your teeth, but to give into the pain, feel it fully, let it be, and detach yourself from it. In a way, you flee not away but into the pain. This may not make much sense but your mind "gets it" automatically when it needs to, because at those moments equanimity is the least painful available option. Other important points are not to do anything that might be damaging your body (i.e. if you're limping for the rest of the day after you get up, next time choose a different posture), and to have a positive attitude and be kind to yourself .

This is definitely not easy or pleasant, but the results I usually get are amazing. It rapidly changes how I feel and how I view myself and the world, strangers treat me differently, and I can get people laughing by saying things that would literally get me a slap in the face if I said them as my "normal" self. I'd be very curious of people's results if someone tries this as an experiment for 1-2 weeks!

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