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How to Get a Girl's Attention and Keep It

how to get a girl's attentionThere I was, 7th grade, sitting oh-so-close to one of the prettiest girls in school. She had long, wavy blonde hair, and for the life of me I couldn't stop staring at her legs. I wanted nothing other than her.

That was my math class, every single day, 5 days a week. And I knew that it was on me to figure out how to get her every bit as excited about me as I was about her. I had to figure out how to get a girl's attention.

And so I did. In "How to Attract Women," I spoke some about how I learned to attract women later in life. What I want to talk about in this post, though, was how I learned to get women's attention; how I learned to make women take note of me, start keeping track of me, and begin to become intrigued. Because it was those early lessons in middle school, as well as the ones that were to come years later, that allowed me to today find it quite easy to get girls noticing me seemingly (from their points of view) before I've noticed them, and it's an important element of getting them to chase.

If you can learn how to get a girl's attention, you can learn how to captivate her. And once you've mastered those two things... let's just say everything else is a snap.

Chase AmanteAbout the Author: Chase Amante

Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone. So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating. After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website. He will teach you everything he knows about girls in one single program in his Mastery Package.


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Max's picture

Wow! That was a real great tutorial I must admit!!
Guess what?!
It really works :D

Mudeo's picture

Hi I don't really understand since I am a visual learner so what really works?

Anonymous's picture

Hey Chase, really love this site... It has helped me understand so much. I just have a quick question though. Do you have any quick tips, articles, or solid advice on how to have a strong presence without being that "loud guy" always begging for attention? I am the guy you were in seventh grade... Answering tough questions while throwing in humorous side comments... But IM in high school now and I want to be able to get a girls Attention without doing all of that. Any help please?

Anonymous's picture

i got a really cool hat that i wear even during class and the teachers have gotten so tired of asking me to take it off they don't even care the girls thought that was cool so the hat thing works it just cant be gay a hat it has to be different

Anonymous's picture

ya i kind of do the same thing to make myself stand out from the others except its not a hat... its a sweatband but it is still unique in a sense

rafael's picture

hey man.. you are good.. and i have learned from you.. i hope i will propose on her birthday with a golden ring.. just all wish me luck..

Olga's picture

While most guys try to be very nice and helpful to draw the attention of the woman they want, it's just doesn't work that. For good looking woman it's not enough simple because she gets this kind of attention everywhere and all the time. So basically you'll be a part of a very large number of guys and you don't stand out.

To get her attention you need to spice it up a little, be a little rood to her and not do everything she asks from you. That's the only way to get her attention and even create some spark between you :)
good luck

Jared's picture

So I liked this girl and we had class together and we are acquaintances, but right before christmas I went up and told her I thought she was really cute and I have her some chocolate with my number in it and said she should call me sometime, and she did but not until New Years just to say happy New Years, and I see her all the time but she hasnt responded to the one text I sent her, and sometimes we make eye contact, but I dont know what Im suppose to do, because I follow your steps a lot, I make myself stand out, wear nice, stuff, people say I'm good at talking and I'm nice, but What should I do?

Anonymous's picture

What should you do? Move on.
I had this slight crush on a girl earlier this year. I couldn't decide if she liked me back. She seemed nice enough, but sometime she laughed at my jokes and sometimes she rolled her eyes at everything I didd. Do I just fogot about her. Trust me, you do not want to keep annoying this girl with your texts. Been there, done that. She will just end up dissappointing you. Better to fibd someone else, or at least lie low until she texts you.

Anonymous's picture

You didn't mention this. You really don't have to be "cool" to get attention. I am pretty much the biggest nerd in my grade. I used to deny it and basically just got more grief. Since 7th grade I've been accepting it, bragging about it instead of faking. WAY better response with girls.
Also about the whole "standing out" thing, I thought it would be good to kention my friend (also a nerd) always wears his porkpie. It's kinda funny but everyone knows him for it, he has a LOT of girls in his grade crushing on him
PS-- The email i used for this comment was fake :)

Anonymous's picture

loved it.thanks alot

Coded 's picture

Am just this cool asshole of a guy, but i think being a genius does it all..

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