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Tactics Tuesdays: For Resistant Girls, Use This Parting Shot

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Some girls like to be with you and have your attention, but won't let you escalate. If you reach the point where you're ready to bail on them, before you do, do this.

I've talked about parting shots on Girls Chase before.

A parting shot is anything you say to a girl before you ditch her, leave her behind, or otherwise cut contact with her, because it doesn't seem to be going anywhere with her.

It is, in my opinion, not great form to simply walk away from a woman you've invested time and energy into, and had even a bit of a connection with and got a little ways with, without a parting shot.

The reason for this is simple: sometimes women play games, under the assumption that you will continue to play games.

They do this because most guys will.

But you're not most guys.

And before you shove off, it's important that women understand that.

Chase AmanteAbout the Author: Chase Amante

Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone. So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating. After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website. He will teach you everything he knows about girls in one single program in his One Date System.



Vuk's picture

Is it possible to use the parting shot too early? Like, you go on one date, you see that the girl likes you but will not put out, and at the end of the first date, you give her the parting shot you're talking about?

Joseph Patin's picture

It depends if you're in first place with her. If you're not, (seems like you aren't) it'll just come off as desperate at worst, challenging her in vain at best. She also knows when she spreads, she gives up her power and control. Women value attention more than sex. Have you ever masturbated to social media likes on your new pic in your Armani Suit? I think not. Men get off on sex, women get off on attention and games.

When she's an attention whore to you, you failed at being better than her competition. No woman is shy. Any woman would put out on the first date with the right guy AKA alpha, not a beta or useless. Put Lebron James or Elon Musk near this same girl, see how shy and how many games she plays then.

Everything with dating hinges on the girl's interest in you and what she's looking for at the time. When you went out with her, she may have been recruiting for orbiters and ego boosters while Chad and Tyrone are waiting for her to come home so they could dick her down.

Most times we NEXT a girl, the girl actually NEXTed us first. We react to her disinterest accordingly. Most times, the girl moves on from you before she says hi or the date ends. You're better off saying you worked things out with your ex and got back together. But she'll keep you around as a friend, as long as your meat ain't within 5 miles of her.

Women have too many options as it is. Be better than the one she has in first place. You're always in competition for any girl you're going after, and one trait can ruin you i.e. you using Samsung over iphone, you're cheering for a rival team, your race, height, age, etc.

I say using a parting shot is useful when she keeps putting up walls.

Raemon's picture

Hey, great article.
I have got a question though - you said that after you deliver the shot you should disappear from her life completely and stop talking to her altogether, but I think the aim of this parting shot is to ultimately reunite and get what you want, is it not? Therefore, my question is: after you've been out of her life for some time, with 0 communication, how do you re-establish the communication/connection?

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