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A Man's Girl Mix and His Jadedness

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The mix of girls you’ve dated and slept with informs your opinions of women. Different girl mixes can lead to very different thoughts about women.

As you make your way through life, and particularly as you make your way through seduction, you will discover different men at varying levels of ‘jaded’.

There are romantically inexperienced men who are incredibly optimistically naïve about women. There are romantically inexperienced men who are incredibly pessimistically naïve about women. Like all views formed from a distance, these are unrealistic views, punctured by the first few experiences with women in the flesh.

Once a man begins to accumulate romantic experience, his views on women shift toward the middle. The optimist discovers women are not as pure as he’d thought; the pessimist discovers women are not so devious as he’d feared.

Yet, from this intermediate middle point, as men accumulate still more sexual and romantic experience, their views diverge again.

All experienced men’s views on women are ‘realistic’. Yet the tenor of the views can differ wildly from man to man. They range from the experienced man who thinks women are sometimes tricky but mostly sweet, to the experienced man who thinks every woman is a siren, luring men who fall off their guards for even a moment to the rocks.

There’s one single, easy way to predict how jaded about women a man with some experience under his belt will be, though: look at the mix of women he’s been with.

Chase AmanteAbout the Author: Chase Amante

Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone. So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating. After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website. He will teach you everything he knows about girls in one single program in his One Date System.



stefxxxyyy's picture

just 2 hours ago i realized the " junk food-junk sex" analogy! just before reading it here! what a coincidence!

Chase Amante's picture

Synchronicity :)

Anonymous 's picture

Lol the way you describe women as junk food in your seduction diet. Haha that's so funny.

I wish it was easy that I had women available to me like chips to eat.

47 and 55 women seem like a lot for a man like me. Does it take a long time to get there? and treat women like cookies and chips? Because right now I'm famished!!

Chase Amante's picture


Haha. Well, it might or it might not. Depends where you're starting out.

Getting up-to-speed is the hardest part of stringing together more notches. Once you've got a system figured out (game, environment, look, type of girl you target) it gets easier and easier. Though you can still hit speed bumps, dry spells, etc.

This post will help if notches are the goal:

Top 7 Easiest Ways to Get Laid & Raise Your Notch Count


John Madrid 's picture

Chase and Team Congratulations for the amazing content of this website It really helps a novice seducer Lane to sucess.

I would like to know If only daygame girls are "good"?And If they aren't what would you define as good girls(besides virgins,cutesy next door or some religious girls)?


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