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To get a one-night stand, go to where the girl-guy ratios are
higher and the atmosphere is hookup-oriented. Approach early and move
fast. Invite girls home.
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So you want to hook up with a girl and get a one-night stand. Go
out, lock eyes with her, walk up to her, smile at her, say hello. Then,
not so long after, take her hand and lead her out of there... Straight
back to your place or hers. Off come the clothes, and into bed you go.
Sounds simple enough.
Over a decade ago, when I set out to teach myself success with girls, one-night stands were my second focus. My first focus was how to get a phenomenal girlfriend (and you can read my guide on how to get a girlfriend here).
It took me a little while to get that first one-night stand, because I did not know what I was doing. But once I figured out how to get them, I got better and better at doing so. After I'd put enough work (and a few years) in, I could just about get one-night stands on command. At that point I'd achieved a major personal milestone: the ability to hook up with girls whenever I wished.
In this article, based on a decade of my own experience hooking up with girls and getting one-night stands, I show you how to do it. In addition, I've tapped 15 scientific studies that will open your eyes to a few elements of one-night stands you likely did not know. And I've laid it all out in simple, clear instructions.
So let's dive in! Let's show you how to get a one-night stand... tonight.
Comments
You have missed out the
You have missed out the important step of 'getting to know her' or connecting on an emotional level. This is not always necessary - sometimes flirting and banter will suffice, but in my experience most girls will not go home with you without feeling that there is something deeper about them that you like. Flirting and banter is too superficial for this. Unless of course you are 'sniping' girls who are down to fuck in that moment and who just need to know that you aren't some crazy axe murderer.
Building Connections
Ale-
Fixed. Just added.
Made a judgment call to leave this out in the first pass since it isn't always needed, and can get in the way of quick pickups (especially when newer guys get too fixated on trying to build deep, meaningful connections... And end up missing signs and lose the girl).
But you're right, it's usually important to have some kind of connection, and not safe to assume this will just crop up automatically if guys are chatting, bantering, and moving girls around. Covered under Part 3 now.
Chase
Sup Chase,
Sup Chase,
I'm trying to figure out two things.
How do you even deep dive in a club or a bar?
I feel the music would be too loud and distracting.
And when you tell girls to come get something with you, but you're really trying to get her back to the crib, would they get mad if they didn't know they were going to your crib? Would they feel lied too?
Lastly, I do freelance work, but I don't want people to know this. What can I tell people when they ask me what I do? I say help desk, it, tech or something, that sound good? Then they ask me for what company, then I'm like wtf.
Peace
Deep Diving in Clubs, Pulling Girls Home
Black-
Easy to deep dive in clubs after a.) you pull her to sit on a couch with you, or b.) you pull her to move to a quieter part of the venue with you. Depending on where you meet her you may be able to deep dive a bit initially (e.g., if she's by the bar and not being distracted by friends), or you may not (if, say, you start chatting her up right near the action). Often you can't deep dive until you've moved her first.
Once you've moved her though, you can get very close to her if it's too loud, and both deep dive and have a lot of physical proximity/touch as well.
As for, "Come on, I have to pick something up," and then you're both at your place... Depends on the stage the courtship was at. If she was ready to be alone with you, she won't care what reason you used. If she's not in the mood though, that's when you're going to hear, "I thought you just needed to pick something up?" (at which point, you'd either better turn on the charm quick, or you'll have to leave with her, go do something else, and bring her back again later when she's more warmed up).
As for "what do you do", just describe what you do. Do so in either an intriguing or self-deprecating way. So if tech, intriguing might be, "I build things that let people use the Internet." If self-deprecating, maybe it's, "You know that guy you call when your computer stops working? That's what I do." As for what's your company: "I don't have a company. I have clients. More money plus more freedom. I like it much better that way."
Chase
Quality.
Chase,
This is amazing. Love this article, especially with the references.
Along with general game. I love the meta theories associated behind this.
The research is out there in spades. So underutilized and applied to everyday life. Makes me wknder why they didn't teach using this stuff in my English or Sociology classes.
Keep up the good work Chase and tge rest of the aithprs at GC.
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