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approaching and talking to a girl that is with a friend
Hi Chase, I was wondering if you have any approach that works better when you see a girl walking with her friend walking or in cafe or in a restaurant other than a bar or a club. I have tried many different ways but none have really worked in these scenarios when the girl is not alone. even when I have got the number it does not lead any where. so wanted to get your opinion on these scenario
Approaches in Specific Situations
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Some of these might help:
In cafés I'm a big fan of slow opening, where you gradually ping her, open and close, until you warm up into a conversation. Beware of the trap of sitting next to a girl in a café and getting into a long conversation though; it's intrusive and unless you plan to instant date her you often won't hear back when you text her later. Instead you want to make a little light chit-chat, hit it off a bit, but talk no more than a few minutes, and trade numbers at the end of it.
Or if you meet her waiting in line, you can point at something or make chit-chat with her, then grab her number before she gets her order (and then head to another café at that point if she's staying there since it's kind of weird if you both hang around after you take her number to contact her later. If she's heading to work or to meet a friend, you're golden).
Restaurant, same thing if it's casual, although I will say I haven't bothered with finding a good approach for proper restaurants where it's a group of people sitting around a table. It's just such a large social breech it doesn't seem much worth it for me. I suppose you could keep an eye out and see if she goes to the bathroom to try to run into her there on her way out. Otherwise you'll have to go in guns blazing and join her group.
As for walking with a friend, same deal as a standard street stop, although the most effective method I've coming across is coming in as the clueless-but-excited guy looking for directions who then proposes both girls join him for something later. Then ideally get the number of the girl you like best (but if not, don't sweat it). If you get both girls coming later either bring a buddy or go for the cold approach threesome, but a lot of the time you'll get whichever girl likes you most coming out solo on a date. Sometimes you'll get the situation where both girls like you and the leader is the less attractive girl. In that case, if you take no action, you'll end up with the phone number of the lesser attractive of the two. What I do in those situations is say, "Here, let's all trade cells," and take both girls' numbers, then either only text the hotter one, or text the hotter one on a date and text the less hot one that I want us all to go to a party / social gathering / etc. on [whatever date], if I think she won't let her friend meet up with me if I don't text her something.
Chase
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