If you want respect, you must be able to demand respect. The
first part of this, however, is to realize you will never destroy your
ego – so you might as well work with it.
There is an undercurrent of pseudo-philosophical thinking in the
manosphere and the seduction community that needs to be revealed for
what it is.
I have also been guilty of allowing this false thinking. This is as
much a self-correction as it is a monumental criticism that strikes at
the heart of many a grandmaster’s conclusion.
I call it the Egolessness Fallacy.
It is the fallacious thinking that having no ego is the
best way to succeed with women.
The thinking goes as such: “Without an ego, where is thy sting,
rejection?” There is no one there to be rejected.
This is *very* close to truth, but that which is closest to truth
but not truth is the most devious lie.
I reckon this is how the falsity was woven.
If you go far enough in any skill, you will learn how
to learn. You will learn how you learn, which means you’ll
come to know how emotions affect you, stick with you, and how your
The journey of seduction is perhaps one of the most direct paths to
learning oneself, save for meditation, since you are the subject who is
both acting and being evaluated. In any sport, you are the one carrying
the ball or kicking the ball, yes, but the end goal is something
impersonal. The other team or your team gets scored on. You are
somewhat detached from the loss or victory (though it doesn’t always
feel that way, of course).
With game, however, the woman has to accept you for there
to be victory.
Furthermore, victory is mutual. You get pussy and she gets cock. You
This means you are not so focused on the other person losing as you
are with a traditional sport; you’re instead focused on two paradoxical
You need her to want to submit to you.
However, the paradox is revealed when you consider that a woman does
not submit to her equal or subordinate. It doesn’t make sense. She wants to submit,
but she doesn’t win
by submitting to a man who can’t make her submit.
One could be equitable and argue you need to be more dominant than
her, but in practicality, this is going to look and feel like you are
greater than her. Philosophize all you want, you must be her superior
if you want to have sex fast.
You > her.
Don’t see the paradox yet? Alright, here it is.