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It’s sexy to part your lips. Some of Hollywood’s most alluring
leading men have used parted lips. If it works for them, it can work
for you too.
Just wanted to do something simple and basic today, after my latest stretch of hard/advanced and gargantuan posts. So today we’ll talk about parted lips.
Parted lips do three things for you:
This fits in nicely with Hector’s series on smart men vs. dumb men.
In this article, we’ll talk about when to part your lips and what uses this has.
There are two big downsides to going bareback on girls:
pregnancies and infections. But nobody talks about the upsides. What’s
the truth about unprotected sex?
In my article last week on how to best please women, I mentioned having unprotected sex as a pleasure booster and devotion inducer. When you shag a girl raw, and especially when you cum in her, all other things being equal (i.e., the sex itself, and the experience of it, are also just as good), the experience for her (and for you) tops anything you can achieve with a condom on.
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I also mentioned this was not an endorsement or a recommendation, and that you’d better know the risks. And that the risks for it aren’t minor (diseases and pregnancy being the Big Two).
We had a few readers ask for more on the topic in the comments of that article, however. One comment was:
“How are we having sex with these girls raw with no consequences? Lol
How do we get girls to have sex raw with us?
How do we know if she does this with everyone or not? How do we know we’re special ?
How do we know she’s clean
How do we not get her pregnant
How many girls would you advise we do this to?
I’m really curious, I love raw sex, but my safety is more important”
Another reader requested a proper article on having sex raw.
So, I’m going to give you the politically incorrect truth about raw dogging women – including women you’ve just met. Because there’s a lot of good information in the sex education you’ve had, but it had one problem: it went heavy on the fear, and light on the benefits.
We’ll talk both today.
Science tells us 7 factors matter for how pleased a woman is with
sex. Whether it’s your first time with her or your 1000th, you’ll want
to use these 7.
I have a fun post for you today on how to please women so thoroughly you get them hooked on you.
We’ll talk about getting her hooked your first time in bed... as
well as keeping her hooked for a long time thereafter.
These tips come from discussions I’ve had with fellow lovers of women the years (men with triple-digit notch counts and plenty of experience pleasing all kinds of women) mixed up together with the very best science out there on female sexual satisfaction.
We’re going to start with the science, then get to the how-to. Of course, if you just want the practical “how to” on how to please a woman, you can always skip to it right here (or use the table of contents on the left).
Either way, by the end of this article, we’ll get you hooking just about every girl you wrangle into bed. The women you sleep with, from here forward, will not be able to get enough of you.
On with the show.
Usually you want to touch the girls you like. But not always.
Advanced daters can use the ‘no-touch’ technique to ramp things up with
harder-to-get girls.
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1. Beginners: Stick with Touch
4. Switching Between Touch/No-Touch
Usually, the other writers here and I will tell you to touch women early and touch them often.
Touch is good. It lets her see you are not a timid man, unafraid to contact her. It helps you stand out from most of the men she meets, who either don’t touch her or don’t know how to touch her (i.e., they touch her in half-hearted or awkward ways).
When you start out, you will want to touch any woman you talk with, to get comfortable with touch, and in general to help you build the sexual tension you will have difficulty building with vibe alone as a beginner.
However, sometimes (particularly for non-beginners) it works better if you don’t touch. Today’s article will be about that.
The girl who’s new to town is easier to chat up, get dates with,
sleep with, and make your girlfriend. But why? It’s down to social rank
and newcomer identity.
Wherever you look, the ‘new girl in town’ phenomenon is in evidence. Specifically, the ‘new girl in town is easy’ phenomenon:
Female university students are easier to bed in their first two semesters in school than at any other time in their college careers
The new intern at work is far and away easier to bed than the girl you’ve worked with for the past two years
Girls who’ve just joined an online dating platform are
significantly easier to score meet ups with than women who’ve
been on there three plus months
Girls you meet at bars or the gym or salsa class who’ve just moved to town are easier to sleep with and date than girls who’ve been there a year or longer
Women who are fresh off the boat (FOB) from a foreign country
are way easier to bed than foreign-born women who’ve been in your
country three or four years
The first few times you hook up with a girl who’s new – in school, at work, in town, in your country, or in any scene – you might assume it’s a fluke. But when it starts to happen again and again, you can begin to wonder something else: could it be that women who are new to the scene are easier in general?
As it turns out, they are.
We’re going to talk a bit about why. And then we’ll talk about where to find women who are freshly arrived (for all your dating and mating purposes).
The parable of three brothers who choose different wives to fit
different criteria (beauty, kindness), and lead different lives as a
result.
Sure, you can give up, slink off, and go lick your wounds when a
woman resists you. Or… you can make her laugh at herself instead.
Resistance is one of the more troublesome things you'll run into with girls.
You approach her to say hello, she resists. You try to talk to her, she resists. You introduce yourself to her, she resists. You ask her to move with you, she resists.
There are various ways to counter resistance. Depending on when in the courtship you face it, the advice can be different. For instance, a girl who resists on the open is a lot less likely to have a guy hang around and try to break through that resistance than, say, a girl who resists once she's back alone with a guy and mostly naked. Most men will be more persistent the further along they are in the courtship.
But there is one magical way to tackle resistance that works no matter what stage of the courtship you're at.
It doesn't always work. It isn't 100% - nothing is. However, it's the best way I've discovered to shatter resistance. And best of all, it's fun.
This way is simple: you make her laugh at herself.
You point out how silly she is, resisting you like this. And then you make her have a little chuckle.
Because no matter how stony faced she was before... no matter how staunch the resistance she gave you was... as soon as she's giggling or snickering at her own silliness, much of the time, now you've got her.
If she has sex with you fast, does that mean she’s easy? Well… it
might. Yet you need a bigger sample size than one (i.e., just you and
her) to really know.
One of the more prevalent notions about women and time-to-bed (I’m just going to call it ‘TTB’ in this article) is that the faster a girl gets in bed with you, the sluttier she is.
This is not just an Internet meme. It existed long before the
Internet did. It probably
goes
back as far as humans have been a mostly-monogamous species and have
possessed language (that is to say, this meme’s at least a
million years old).
Like much wisdom that’s been with us for a long time, it’s rooted in truth. On average, easier women have shorter TTBs (times-to-bed). The harder a girl is to get, the longer her TTB is, on average.
BUT, there is a but. There’s a big but. A Kim Kardashian-with-gluteal-implants sized but.
To be more accurate, there are several big buts.
And if you don’t know what they are, there’s a not-insignificant chance you will ditch a low partner count girl who’s never moved as fast with a guy as she did with you and never will again... or wife up a high partner count girl (with similarly high predilections to stray) after mistaking her for a cagey, hard-to-get one because she knew how to play the game (or just wasn’t that into you).
Sometimes you don’t want to follow the instructions. The
instructions are for other folks, not you! But if you still aren’t
getting results, maybe it’s time to change things up.
Over the years, we’ve seen myriad guys come and go who struggle with a specific problem. These guys are among the most frustrated folks we see at Girls Chase. Not only are they frustrated themselves, but they frustrate everyone who tries to help them, too.
You see, what they want is a magic pill. They want you to tell them how to do everything you teach guys how to do – only they want you to teach them to do it faster and easier than how you teach all those other guys how to do it.
It doesn’t matter how fast the method you’re teaching is. It could take two weeks to work; they’d still want to know how to do it in four days. When you finally persuade them to put the work in, they take a couple of half-hearted shots at it, all their dreams don’t instantly come true, and they give up. It’s too hard, they’re too unmotivated they say. Then they want you to motivate them. Or, even better, give them some kind of shortcut you haven’t told them about before.
We’ve seen it a lot on the discussion boards. Some of the guys we banned in 2017 were long-time members who kept asking for magic pills, chafing at the suggestion when other members suggested they start with the basics, then whined about how hard it was and how unfair their situations were.
And I wondered to myself: “What the heck is these guys’ problems? Why can’t they just do the work and quit whining about it? Why do they ask for magic pills over and over and over again? They’ve GOT all my stuff – and all everybody else’s stuff – right here on the darn site!”
Sure, there’s a lot of material here, and it can be hard to know
where to start. That’s why we have the quiz and our programs, though. Both of
those are condensed information that takes you through a guided
process. There’s also the newbie assignment on the boards,
which only takes 14 days and a little courage to do.
We have paths for guys who are new and want to start getting results.
But some guys don’t take them – then not only don’t they follow the
paths we’ve laid out for them, but they continue to complain
about not getting results anyway. What’s
going on with people like this?
Well, as it turns out, a piece of scientific research fresh off the presses (published at the end of December) has figured out what’s going on with people who do this.
