Getting Past the "Spotlight Effect" When Approaching Girls: 4 Steps
If you feel like “everyone’s watching” you talk to girls, that’s the spotlight effect. Use these 4 steps to beat it and it’ll hamper you with women no more.
If you feel like “everyone’s watching” you talk to girls, that’s the spotlight effect. Use these 4 steps to beat it and it’ll hamper you with women no more.
Some men are too proud to succeed with women. But not the arrogant man. He succeeds with women in spades. What separates futile pride from triumphant arrogance?The world is littered with men far too proud to ever succeed with women.
A few stock transitions are all you need to move into role-playing with women in any courtship. Use my 5 role-play transitions for easy-peasy role-plays.Commenting on my guide to ‘little leaving’ (a kind of mini-takeaway), Appollo77 asks:
There are 3 kinds of ‘agenda mode’ / husband hunter type girls. Two of them you can sleep with; one, however, you must SCREEN OUT (to not waste time)!Lots of guys right now are troubled over women in ‘agenda mode’:
Those girls who are hunting for husbands, screening out the players, looking for commitment.
How do you, y’know, get it on with such girls?
What do you do if you’re not a woman’s type? Simple enough: just elicit her romantic and sexual values – then build yourself as her type.
She’s at your place, clothes are coming off, then she says, “I don’t usually do this.” Why’s she say it? What’s it mean? And exactly what should YOU do?
Roses gets an upgrade as I weave stories into the already-written chapters. Now, rather than merely a process-focused book, it’s chock full of examples, too.It’s been the better part of a year since my last update on my progress writing the Roses of Romantic Attraction, so – time for a new one.
“Women are a cinch to manage,” said no man in any long-term serious relationship ever. But how much must a man tolerate – and where do you draw the line?Women… beautiful, wonderful, and amazing as they are… nevertheless are agents of chaos. Chaos is simply a part of feminine nature. No getting around it.
“Changing her mind is a woman’s prerogative,” goes the saying.
Meet a girl in a place and never see her elsewhere, and her meeting with you feels ‘hazy’. To truly solidify things, bounce her through multiple locations.Ever met someone somewhere and gotten into a long, deep conversation on the spot?
When you finally part ways, and look back, it feels a lot like looking back on a dream.
The best conversations are about EMOTION. But what kinds of emotion? Too long in any one feeling and it gets boring… or oppressive. Use the flux flip to keep conversations sexy & FRESH.Back in 2014, I wrote an ebook on a concept I call ‘the flux flip’.