Doggedly following up with girls can get you girls. But why? Isn’t it try-hard? Doesn’t it make you look bad? Dogged yet CALIBRATED follow up is neither – and here is why.Commenting on my article about following up doggedly with girls, Alejandro says:
Chase,
Guys often give up on girls they’re texting with far too easily. If you want to get the date & girl, you must be more dogged – and COOLER – than this.I just spoke with a client who’s making a lot of approaches but struggling to overcome a flat delivery that’s a little too far into “nice guy” territory.
Women check out from relationships with checklist boyfriends & husbands. Being the ‘checklist guy’ is the last thing you want – so here’s how to not be it.There’s a phenomenon I have observed where men and women who get dumped and do not understand why reel off a checklist of ‘qualifying characteristics’.
Discover how to use playful “trouble frames” to create a flirtatious, engaging dynamic and turn a simple conversation into a compelling connection.I just had a call with a mentorship client in which he’d opened a pair of girls in a bar with a very natural opinion opener but hadn’t been sure where to take it from there.
Understand “Schrödinger’s attraction”: a woman can be simultaneously interested and not—a state that collapses only when you make a key move.Here’s a concept I think is very important for men to understand, that most men clearly do not understand, and that I have never seen properly detailed before.
Use the non-invitation, a playful chase frame, to suggest a date without the risk of a direct rejection. 
The “Let Me See Your Hands” routine is a simple bit of banter (lifted straight from improv comedy) that lets you rope women deeper into your seductions.When you first approach a girl, you need to achieve a few things in relatively quick succession:
Men’s conversations with women turn boring or platonic when key attractive elements are missing. See 4 common ‘boring convo’ mistakes + how to fix them.I’ve heard and read a bunch of conversations from guys recently as they talk to girls where the girl gets bored and pulls away. These conversations have varied from:
Hit the right balance of making her feel special while also replaceable. The 'No Takebacks Rule' keeps her hooked by making endings final—no second chances.This article is more relevant to relationships than it is to seduction—however, it plays its part there too.
Generally, I find that men are only able to do ONE (1) of these:
