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What Are Women Looking For? The Top 10 Things

A topic that surfaces among men of all skill levels is understanding what women are looking to get out of their lives. It seems like women are much more fleeting with their greater desires than men are.

However, there are some general themes that I believe dictate how women act in their daily lives and in the long term. Women expect many things, and they are looking for a lot of fulfillment in their lives.

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And one great source of that fulfillment can be a good man. Or more specifically, you. So I want to talk about what women are looking for in general, and then frame the actual top ten list in terms of how women expect men to fit into the overall scheme of their lives.

Colt WilliamsAbout the Author: Colt Williams

Raised in the American Midwest, Colt Williams made a name for himself in dating with a style based on soulful poetic seductions and playful dance floor antics. His style is all about inspiring girls and drawing them into one’s world. You can book phone coaching with him here, or get a copy of his guide to getting laid on Tinder, the product of months of study and experimentation by him on the medium.


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Anonymous's picture

I have been writing many times on this site and I don't like being so negative but when you are a guy who only gets rejected than it is hard to be positive.

We all are looking for something it is part of us and I get CONSTANTLY rejected. I wanted to be a strong man and I did that by taking dance lessons, going to the gym, learning to box and focus on fundamentals. Irony is I found women went with all kind of guys even guys that are NICE and WEAK just NOT ME.

It is very hard to be Strong as you state above when you have constantly being rejected by women. It is very hard to have fun when you are just looking all over attractive women you know (FROM EXPERIENCE) that even if you go talk to them it will turn total abysmal.

I don't know what to do.

Anonymous's picture

i remember there's an article on this site about the 80/20 rule where 80% percent is gonna reject and those 20% are interested in you and that you need to focus on those 20%.

"It is very hard to be Strong as you state above when you have constantly being rejected by women."

you mentioned you take boxing lessons..its kinda like when you first started out you keep getting hit but as long you keep practicing you will start to be aware what you are doing wrong. Perhaps you got your external fundamentals down like throwing punches and what not... but it doesn't matter if you don't know when to throw them (windows).. so now you may need to focus on being aware to plan accordingly like a strategy?

check out the mindset sections bro

No Victims Here Please's picture

There's a part of the puzzle that you're not seeing. But no one can really help you because you haven't provided any details in your post. Stop complaining, read more so you can identify your problems or at least hypothesize what they may be, and then apply solutions. Rinse and repeat as necessary until the problem is solved.

Austin's picture

Dear Colt,

Excellent article as always .I am a regular reader and a huge fan .Can you please do a detailed article on CHALLENGE ? .This is my humble request
and i hope you would`nt let me down.


Anonymous's picture

No offense ment brother, I know the dating realm can be difficult. But a victims mentality isn't going to help. It sounds like it's been smoldering in the back of your mind. Stay positive and keep yourself focused on improvement. Thing are bound to go your way if you keep making an effort and utilitizing girls chase advice.
Good luck buddy

BBJW's picture

Hey Dave,

Welcome! I don't know your background or history, by I hope you can help me out with this. Anyway, as A highschool student, most of the girls I come across are virgins or have very little sexual experience. Do you have any advice for breaking past these girls walls and bedding them? Especially because most of them don't really know what they're missing.


Anonymous's picture

I too am in high school and I'm finding it hard to get past the "final 5%" with virgins. Is there a surefire way to accomplish such a task?

Thanks as always,

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