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How to Prevent Cheating by Your Girlfriend

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Most people trying to prevent cheating get it wrong – and try to control their partners. There’s a much more effective strategy than this.
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Thu, 08/09/2012 - 03:22

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how to prevent cheatingYesterday I made a post on the infamous scenario of when a girl has a boyfriend and you want to date her or get together with her anyway.

As you might expect (though I admittedly hadn't really thought about before making the post), some guys got upset and one of them responded with, and I paraphrase, "How could you?" (another one responded with a comment that wasn't as eloquently put and didn't merit posting)

How could I what, you might ask? Why... how could I share with men this forbidden knowledge on how to get girls who are already attached! Now, I get a lot of people asking myself to censor myself on this website - human sexuality is the single most controlled and censored thing in recorded (and doubtless before recorded) history, after all... we're all biological organisms, and the ultimate aim of all biological organisms is reproduction. Everyone and their brothers wants to be able to control the system, maximize their own abilities to mate, and prevent others from becoming or remaining threats to them.

But as luck would have it, I prepared a companion piece for yesterday's post on how to get a girl with a boyfriend: namely, one on how to prevent cheating; or, how to make your girlfriend not want to stray... and how to make her so crazy about YOU that no other guy will be much of a threat.

Do please note: we're going to take a walk down evolutionary psychology road, so if you have any reservations about wanting to open up the hood on relationships and see what's really underneath, this ain't the post for you. You have been warned...!

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Fred's picture

My current girlfriend is great, she is 36 and her PAST is similar to the points listed above for red flags. I have been with her for a year and a half and I haven't seen any of these points now other than a high sex drive. She doesn't go to clubs anymore, she now has more girlfriends than guy friends, we only travel together, she is pretty tame and would prefer a night in versus going out. We are both committed to each other but we have had problems with me dealing with her past. The fights are always about me questioning her past and I have never seen her do anything to suggest she even talks to other guys. She assures me that she only wants to be with me and has no interest in being on the go and dating or having sex with anyone else. She sometimes laughs and says I'm probably the one more at risk as I didn't sew my oats. Overall she has an amazing sex drive, has slept with a number of men (maybe 25-35 is my guess), has traveled alone and has cheated on an ex-boyfriend before. Most days I feel good being with her but some days I wonder will she stray. When I read this article it makes me wonder more. Any insight?

C's picture

The tough moral decision to break up with someone or the easier immoral decision to cheat, both in hopes of changing the situation. Shit makes me hate human nature and the nature of life man. How do you not want to kill yourself after hearing about how much life demands of you for simply being alive and not raised to do all 3? It's really getting to me and I hope someone can give me some advice here. I know I want to get my life together but shits so exhausting and seems hopeless along with my lack of direction. I dont know if my girl is cheating on me but everything in there is stuff that's happening to me and I hate it.

Dr's picture

Very informative... well written... I have been around the block a few times and can definitely agree with with what he is saying... I'm no angel by any means but there are times I can relate to being in some of those positions with exactly those results... great piece would like to see more updated material

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