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How to Have Sex with a New Girl Regularly

You read seduction blogs. You improve your style. You learn how to approach girls. You purchase quality materials like Chase’s book. But to what end?

I think there are only two ends to learning seduction: sex and relationships. You can have sex without relationships, but you can’t have relationships without sex (at least not good ones). So really, you put in all of this effort to learn how to have sex with new girls. Maybe you want to sleep with just one new girl – a perfectly fine goal.

However, I think the ultimate aim for most men is to learn how to have sex on a consistent, regular basis. That’s what we’re in the game for. As with most worthwhile things in life, it’s easier said than done.

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If you want to learn how to walk that path… read on.

Colt WilliamsAbout the Author: Colt Williams

Raised in the American Midwest, Colt Williams made a name for himself in dating with a style based on soulful poetic seductions and playful dance floor antics. His style is all about inspiring girls and drawing them into one’s world. You can book phone coaching with him here, or get a copy of his guide to getting laid on Tinder, the product of months of study and experimentation by him on the medium.


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Anonymous's picture

"Lack of Hunger. Some guys who have been validated for all of their lives lose the drive to improve themselves. So they let themselves stagnate and remain in their comfort zone instead of pushing harder and seeing what they are really made of. And because of that, their stagnation eventually leads to them falling behind."
Really resonates with me

Anonymous's picture

This is, in my opinion, the best article on this website. So motivating. It's like you smacked me in the head with your words and allowed me to ground myself again and remember to never give up. In the end, this is not simply something I want to do, it is something I MUST do. Nevertheless, Just want to say thanks Colt.

PinotNoir's picture

This makes me feel better about my struggle. After following GC, I have asked out more women, gotten rejected by more women, gone on more dates with women, and have made out and kissed a lot more women in a year than in my entire lifetime probably haha, but I kept thinking, "Why not sex?" It just takes time and numbers.

Also, as life has gotten a stronger grip on me, I've been slacking to where I only approach when out (instead of actively marking days to approach). This is my fault and something I need to change.

Sometimes, I still find my standards a little too high as well. For example, I just want a certain ethnicity or a certain "type" of "cute" girl or this or that. This may be a dumb question, but how can I lower my standards a bit? I'm at least consciously aware that they're too high. When I see a subpar girl, I just can't invest myself completely. In fact, I find myself thinking, "Wow, if I ask her out and she says no.... that would suck. I don't even think she's that great." A terrible mindset, I know, but finding it hard to overcome.


Metal's picture

I got to say I love this article. It made me feel really good for some reason :)

Anonymous's picture

Even if you aren't good at approaching girls (or don't do it at all), it's not hard to line up a few dates a week on tinder. I really don't think I have great game (just started reading this site and find it really helpful), but I still am able to bed a new girl every week or two (got 2 new ones this weekend!). I probably could do a lot better if I practiced - my main goal is to get comfortable approaching really attractive girls during the day because usually I just hook up with girls I meet on tinder or happen to have a reason to talk to.

I have a hard time believing you guys (you, Chase, and the other writers) aren't doing a lot better than 6-12 girls per year. Did you just post the super low goal to encourage people who are having trouble? If that were really the pinnacle, I'm not sure I'd even bother with this stuff.

Wolf's picture

He's saying that if you're a complete beginner, you will most likely have sex with 1 or 2 girls a month. The reason the number is so low, is because the guy is a complete beginner who probably won't even approach many women because he's new to approaching. He probably won't approach more than 3 girls a week. If he's ballsy and approaches women 30 a week, he could be up to 10 a month. The other reason the number is low is because the skill level is low, in the article he says you will mess up, get rejected, and get flaked on. You have to go through that and get better to get past it.

And you know for a fact, these guys do this for a living and sleep with a lot of women. Chase even said he slept with four out of five girls in 2 weeks. This article is for beginners and low intermediate. When you think approaching over 100 girls a month and only sleeping with one or two is low, of course it's low and kind of unthinkable, but if you approach 12 in a month 1-2 isn't so bad. It's worth it to approach 12, sleep with two, get better, and then increase you lay count as you progress.

Anyway, this is a great article and everything takes time, you'll keep getting failures until you pass that point, then you're on your way to the top.

Anonymous's picture

Thanks for another great article Colt and for reminding me that it really is just a numbers game. I live in a small town with ugly, obese women where it's about 8 single guys for every one available, but usually formerly married, single with kid, or fat undesirable girl.

Pretty much the only option is online dating, with a nice 2+ hour drive thrown in to meet said girl. Lousy. Absolutely lousy for logistics. I suppose I should lower my standards significantly... But then I think about what GC said about how a girl's past matters if I want a relationship.

(Trying hard for several years now to land a job in my city of choice but always getting rejected after a face-to-face. I am slowly realizing that I need to improve my stagnant technical skills as each rejection passes my way in my given career before someone will hire me. It's hard being a man...)

Being very self-improvement minded, I look at this as just a journey, even if I am just a handful of years away from being the 40 Year Old Virgin.

Thanks for the motivational boost!

Anonymous's picture

This is my new go to article when I need to get back to neutral and get in state.
Seriously well done!

Anonymous's picture

Bookmarked this article and read it once a day. So great to get you off your ass and back in the game after rejections and flakes. Reminds you that it's just not you, there's a whole community out there that went through/are going through this same trial by fire.

Noah's picture

Colt, this is the best article I've read on this site, and I've been a regular reader for 2 years now. I've seen it all. This one hit home with me so hard. I made significant advances in my first year but especially so in the past 6-8 months. For the first time EVER, I took 2 girls to bed within one month (this past February).

But at the same time, I often feel like I could be doing better. Right now I'm pretty much at ground zero. Brought a girl home last weekend but no sex, and she seems to have lost interest (I've lost interest too, honestly). This article was a good reminder that although I've come far, I still have a ways to go. I often fall into the mindset that I should only go after the hottest of the hot now, but this has just led to scarcity mentality. I sometimes become that guy you mentioned who would focus on one girl at a time and get lazy when it comes to approaching ALL THE TIME.

Thank you, Colt. This is the kind of article I'll come back and read every few weeks.

Anonymous's picture

"Nothing will change without action"
In physics we call that inertia AKA Newton's 1st Law AKA The 1st Law of Motion. That was awesome, and you need to write a book.

Well done!

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