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How Do I Get Motivated? Tips on Motivation

how do i get motivated“How do I get motivated?”

It’s a question you run into at some point when you start tackling something you know you ought to do... but just can’t seem to get yourself to do. And getting better at dating and relationships - while certainly one of, if not the, most rewarding skills to get down - is quite possibly one of the most difficult things to get yourself motivated to work on.

One of the hardest things in this game – and in any endeavor in life, really – is to stay motivated when the going gets tough.

And it will.

In fact, many people argue that the most important part of Napoleon Hill’s book Think and Grow Rich is Chapter 9 – the chapter on persistence.

Because if you think about it – if you just stick with ANYTHING long enough, you’re BOUND to get better at it… and eventually the results will come as a mere side effect of getting better and better at your craft.

But if that’s true, then the question is… why isn’t everybody doing this?

Why aren’t all people more persistent with their goals, if that’s really all it takes?

Ricardus DominoAbout the Author: Ricardus Domino

Ricardus was one of the most prolific and respected coaches in the men’s dating advice industry. He’s dated some of the planet’s most beautiful women, ranging from a Miss World contestant, to a model for Coca-Cola, to one of “Brazil’s Next Top Models.” His specialty is daytime street stops. He is most remembered for his “Are you single?” opening line. Ricardus is currently retired from the dating advice industry.

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This is a great article. This stuff is so inspiring to read. I have struggled with social anxiety for as long as I can remember and talking/engageing with women only magnifies it a thousand times. I am amazed at how much "social momentum" plays a part in getting better socially(like you mentioned). And I feel that this is not talked about enough even though everyone has experienced it at least once. Furthermore I more amazed at how easy it is to get the momentum started. Sometimes all it take is hearing a few jokes and laughing like crazy to get you into a postitive energetic state. There is something about laughter in particular that just absolutely melts away bad tension and deflects all negativity and basically gives you the right to be a make an ass of yourself(in a good way) and not suffer the consequences of shamefulness of akwardness. Just like when they say that if you laugh at yourself no one else can laugh AT you when make a faux pas, there basically just laughing with you at that point.

Seems like sometimes procrastination/not even trying can be directly proportional to how bitter and regretful you can be. Especially when the thing that your procrastinating on is something that you REALLY want, like sexy women.

The other that can be hard that I'd love to see you write about is digging yourself out of dating/sex/confidence droughts. They lead to these unbelieveable downward sprials if not corrected. A spiral that is self-feeding and can gain massive monmetum. I guess taking positve actions and then extracting the positives from those actions is a great start.

Anyway, I'm starting to ramblie. I just thought that this was a amazingly inspiring read and felt compelled to responed. Thank You.

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