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Persist In Your Insistence

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Getting investment from women is a crucial element of your success with them. Men who fail to get investment fail to move things forward with the women in their lives – it’s as simple as that. Investment is vital.

persist in your insistence

So what happens when you ask for compliance and get a “no”? What happens when you say, “Come with me,” and she just shakes her head and stays put?

A common response from a lot of guys is they back down; they retreat from their compliance requests or compliance demands, and forget about it. The following scenario is typical in a number of guys’ interactions:

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Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone. So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating. After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website. He will teach you everything he knows about girls in one single program in his One Date System.



Xenophanes's picture

Hey Chase,

I discovered your blog and e-book only a couple of weeks ago, but both are proving to be amazing reads. I wonder if I could have your thoughts on a situation that's arisen twice with online dating.

Girl 1: We've been out on two dates. Not made out with her yet, though on the second date, I tried the PUA 'Would you like to kiss me line?'. She said it was too soon. She has been keen to meet up, but when I suggested lunch at my place as a third date, she was pretty insistent she was uncomfortable with that and wanted to meet somewhere neutral.

Girl 2: Two dates again. This one was after reading some of your stuff. Lot of deep diving and touching on first date, at end of which I asked her home. She said no, but keen to see me again. We arranged a second date, a couple of days before which, she texts me to ask if I wanted to meet up spontaneously - I couldn't make it. Date 2 I tried pushing pretty hard for her to come back to mine, she kept saying no and eventually went to go home. I basically grabbed her at the train station and made out with her for a while, asked her back again and she was really beginning to waver, when she said it was definitely a no and left. I texted her the next day to ask her over to lunch, but she said that she would be uncomfortable with coming over to mine.

So, basically my questions are:
Where have I gone wrong? Is this just a case of needing to persist? It seems hard to do this over text without seeming pushy/needy.

What should I do now?

Thanks for any light you can shed.

Madara's picture

Hey man, don't know if you still making your rounds with the girl or have settled.
But there are nuances to the interactions as to what expressed, your demeanors and just overall value in her eyes. 8 years later, as your comments suggested, women look for the full package and they are sexually more liberated than ever. you need to be her top options.

Remember there's a side of the polarity, which is considered an edge that you should have, presenting yourself as the lover, not the provider, leads to sleeping with them quickly. you should suggest plausible deniability as they would always need a reason, instead of just simply coming over to your place. a simple "let's take a look at my fishes or anything you think that may spark her interest", you derived from your deep dive.

move as the light ;)

Anonymous's picture

Met a girl at a coffee shop, did some deep diving and we swaped cells
I Followed up as recomend. She said she didn't know me enough to get
together and expressed regret for giving me her number, then told me to
Have a nice day. I took the fact of response as an opening, contacted her in a few
Days as recommended with her name and what I was up too. Gave a good reason
why we should get together and asked what her about openings for the commong week.She responded immediately greatly regretting having given me her number, said she
was going to delete it and expressed fear as if I were some kind of creap for trying
again. My emails had just as you suggested. Where did I go wrong...or did I just
Find a weird girl? She did tell me she was a "Christian"

Any ideas Chase?

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