Day Game Tour with Tony Depp, Pt.3: “I Don’t Know What to Say to Girls!” | Girls Chase

Day Game Tour with Tony Depp, Pt.3: “I Don’t Know What to Say to Girls!”

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don't know what to say to girls
Knowing what to say to girls ultimately requires knowledge and experience. Use these tools to conquer your fear, and the words will take care of themselves.

In Part 2 of my day-game tour, I covered direct, indirect, and situational openers, body language, and vocal tonality.

The most common complaint I hear from my students is, “I just don’t know what to say to girls.” They’re caught in a paradox. They don’t approach because they don’t know what to say, and they don’t know what to say because they don’t approach.

I always ask this question: “How many pickup books, YouTube videos, blog posts, and online courses have you studied?” Most have at least read something. There are probably hundreds of articles on this exact subject on Girls Chase alone. So, how can anyone still not know what to say?

Because they haven’t racked up enough experience.

Some of my first ever approaches followed marathon study sessions, where I spent all night memorizing pickup routines. I had whole stories involving roller coasters, horses, and cubes, but when I finally mustered the guts to actually approach, I forgot all of it.

When you’re nervous or fearful, your adrenaline spikes. This draws blood away from your brain to your extremities. It puts you into “fight-or-flight” mode. How can you seductively articulate your thoughts when your brain thinks you’re going into battle? You can’t.

Tony DeppAbout the Author: Tony Depp

Tony is one of the most veteran day game experts around. He began to pick up women in the mid-2000s, when he posted on the famed seduction forum mASF... alongside other old hands like Chase Amante and Alek Rolstad. Over the last 10 years Tony has coached hundreds of students to meet women during the day. He has two published books out on seduction: one on his journey, and one on doing awesome at day game.



Neal's picture

And my problem is, women don't have anything to say to me!

Benny256's picture

Hey Tony, I'm really curious about this 'NLP Happy Ball' phenomenon. It seems like it's more than push pull at work here though I can't exactly pinpoint the other element at play here. The reason I say this is b'se I've used the typical push pull phenomenon as addressed by Chase both on the blog and his HTMGC eBook as well. And I've also used your "Happy Ball" routine infield on many occasions as well. However, I must say that 9 times out of 10 ur routine seems to elicit a stronger emotion out of girls compared to the general push pull I've used in other scenarios. Hence that's why I'm curious as to why your routine seemingly employing the push pull principle generates far more potent results. So, is push pull the only psychological tenet at play here?

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