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Is It Easy to Get Laid... Or Is It Hard?

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is getting laid easy or hard
Depending on who you talk to or the forums you read, you’ll find guys who say getting laid is hard, while others insist it’s easy. Here’s the real low-down on that.

Is getting laid hard? It’s a commonly asked question, and I see a lot of disagreements regarding this on the forums. For some reason, many guys are also curious about how easy or hard it is to meet women.

Practically speaking, this question does not really lead you anywhere, as the answer will not impact results much.

But what I will try to do in this post is to give you an objective view (which will not be easy) on how hard meeting women and getting laid really is. This is just an opinion from someone who has practiced for 12 years, going out consistently and meeting many different women in different circumstances and places.

First, let’s talk about some subjective factors at play.

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BMontana's picture

I think this quote is the biggest myth in the whole Pick Up community and contradicts in the whole argument. Because on one side you claim women don't care as much about looks than men do but on the other side you claim this: "Nature made women selective to ensure the quality of human reproduction." So obviously if women are even more selective than men are that means women care also more about genetics and looks.

Men on the other hand actually care less about looks than women do when it comes to sex, which this article is about. Men sleep with overweight women, slim women, short haired women, women of any races and hair colors, tall and short women and this has nothing to do with having fetishes, men are just more easily turned on by various women at certain moments. I actually find many curvy chubby women hotter than the typical slim model but that doesn't mean I wouldn't sleep with the slim model. Overall though Ashley Graham anytime over the likes of Keira Knightley. You also actually see more tall fit men with women who are below their looks level because women go for the best men they can get while men go for women who are just willing to date them.

BMontana's picture

I think this quote is the biggest myth in the whole Pick Up community and contradicts in the whole argument. Because on one side you claim women don't care as much about looks than men do but on the other side you claim this: "Nature made women selective to ensure the quality of human reproduction." So obviously if women are even more selective than men are that means women care also more about genetics and looks.

Men on the other hand actually care less about looks than women do when it comes to sex, which this article is about. Men sleep with overweight women, slim women, short haired women, women of any races and hair colors, tall and short women and this has nothing to do with having fetishes, men are just more easily turned on by various women at certain moments. I actually find many curvy chubby women hotter than the typical slim model but that doesn't mean I wouldn't sleep with the slim model. Overall though Ashley Graham anytime over the likes of Keira Knightley. You also actually see more tall fit men with women who are below their looks level because women go for the best men they can get while men go for women who are just willing to date them.

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Alek Rolstad's picture

Hey there. 

I think this becomes a matter of semantics and perhaps my choice of words was inapropriate. 

Men can as you rightfully mention lower their standards in order to get laid. Hence perhaps using the word "caring about looks" may have been misplaced. What I should have written instead is that 'men are more visual hence would be more drawn to looks than women".

Also, when it comes to actual reproduction men are basing their selection on female physical attributes. In contrast women less so. Although I will not claim that male looks is irrelevant. That would be a misplaced claim. However they are very selective on behavioral traits to guarrantee the survival of offprings. 

If you have access to springer, wiley, jstore or any other publishing academic publishers you may look up on certain articles on the subject. My claim does not stem from the seduction community, these are very basic theories from evolutionary biology, that are usually also discussed in fields such as sociology and social psychology. Not saying these claims cannot be falsified, but such task is not GC's role. Additionally  these theories are congruent with the experience of many seducers including myself. 

Another factor at play is that men in general have lower standards. They get facinated by looks more than women, but they have no problems lowering their standards in order to increase quantity of sex partners. This also matches the theories regarding higher-risk taking in male selection selection, in contrast to female risk-averse strategies. 

Hope this clarifies. 

Alek

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