How to Kiss Girls Back at Your Place

Hi guys,

Like the new video format, that's good to hear the reasoning behind and stuff!

Related to the issue of this member itself, I also had a feel that he lacked having taken the conversation into sexual matters, but also looks like that there's no emotional connection and their texts seem what friends' text are. Before taking it into sexual matters I'd advise this member to put more obvious chase frames and tend to get private jokes/qualifications before.

However one of the things that caught my eyes is how predictable this move was: you're inviting her home, she expects you to try to kiss her, then you sit together, put your arm around, touch her hand, then try to make a move. During all those long minutes she was certainly thinking "he's about to try to kiss me, he's about to try". The fact that not much conversation was happening between you during the movie also created this "too predictable" atmosphere. In the case that the girl is in the right mood, very attracted to you and experienced, it shouldn't have been that much of a problem, but seems like it is here.

Next time you see her I'd advise to be a bit more bold and less predictable, take her to a shop just next to get a drink when you're together without having told her before for example, and kiss her when she expects it the less: one thing I used to do when I started and still do nowadays sometimes is having her seated with you somewhere, then get up to go, she'll follow, and as soon as she's standing up kiss her. Maybe manhandle kiss is too advanced for your current level but I have the feeling that if she comes twice at your place alone, she's already attracted a lot to you and needs a man to lead ;)

Cheers,

Davit

Great stuff, Drexel. Always good to see how you guys actually speak. Please continue this series, preferably focusing on the things difficult to explain via text, like jumok93 said. Thanks for the great video, and cheers.

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Nice, i really like the video idea it worked out perfectly. I think it would be great if more kept being made :)

This is excellent. I love your videos, Drexel. I prefer it over listening to the GC podcast. Wonderful stuff!
Btw, what city are you based out of? Just curious.

I love this video , It will be cool if more are made.

Hey everyone, it's not letting me log into my regular account for the comments for some reason. Thanks for all the feedback and I'm glad this resonated with you, I'm definitely going to do more of them now. I will ALWAYS take requests for topics and ideas under consideration, and the more you guys let me know what it is you WANT to learn, the better videos and articles I can make for you. Cheers everyone and have a happy Saturday!

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Thanks Drexel, very basic but tight video! I found that once a girl agrees to go over to my place, I find I don't even need to fuss over kissing her or sex, because they both happen >95% of the time once a girl has agreed to spend time with you in private.

I can't remember the last time where I kissed a girl and didn't sleep with her within an hour. I've lost girls in the past when I've kissed them to end the date (bad idea).

Drexel,
Do you have any recommendation for someone who has no problem escalating and getting sex, but I've relied on online dating (>80% of my dates) so my opening game is dreadful. I realize this is not optimal, but with my busy life (bad excuse), it still gives me success with women, although I somehow feel its a huge crutch and disservice not to open women on a regular basis.

Thoughts?