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Howdy all,
Today I decided to take the time to answer a question related to escalation (being physical or verbal), and more in particular about calibration – calibrating escalation to the girl and the situation.
In other words, the readers were curious how one can escalate while limiting their chances of facing resistance.
Many students of seduction struggle when it comes to escalation, because they lack calibration and can easily blow things off if they do things wrong. Now, being perfectly calibrated is impossible, but great calibration skills come from experience.
However, in this post I will give you some tools that will make things easier for you.
Now onto the questions:
A reader who posted as Anonymous asked the following:
“I was thinking, what’s the difference between sleazy guy who talks about sex, using sexual frames, and escalating vs. sexy guy who talks about sex, using sexual frames and escalating.
And I read your sequence in “Physical escalation in Public” What happens when we escalate at the wrong sequence (too much)? thanks alek ;)”
In addition, Lawliet asked this:
“Nice article bro!
Anonymous said something interesting. Got me thinking.
Just wondering what happens when we escalate too much too early or in the wrong order and what we can do to recover afterwards?
Best regards,
Lawliet”
Both are very good questions and as they are both more or less related I decided to answer them in detail in this post.
Comments
Nice Article
Hello Alek,
You slayed it man. I can't wait to start putting to practice all of this info. On a more different note, I've been on the GC forum and I observed that most of the GC writers are not present there. The only ones I know are active there is Chase himself, Drexel, Hector, Jones and Richard . It would be awesome if you Alek with your years of experience were to be on the boards helping the upcoming guys and sharing your experiences. Same with the others too like Darius, William, Colt, Cody, Eric etc. Some of them might be there using a different name, if that's the case then my bad. Cheers to GC
-Dark Knight
Dark Knight
Hi man and thank you.
About the forums - I haven't been active on any forums for many months. I am just taking a break from it. sometimes you just don't really feel like being on a forum - it is a feeling that comes and go. Maybe it is because i am very busy these days, in addition to traveling (leaving for Budapest tomorrow!).
That being said - after christmas I will have more time. Hopefully i will have time to participate in some discussions. I will most likely pop up on the GC forum, sooner or later.
-Alek
Thrill of chase
Yeah, getting girls isn't that hard, but while most guys are more happy with "thrill of chase, to wait my special the One", only handful of men will ever apply it, no matter how detailed in baby steps you describe it..
Getting girls isn't that easy
Getting girls isn't that easy either. If it was, the average count of sex partners per men in the US wouldn't be 7.
If getting girls was that easy, girlschase.com wouldn't exist and I wouldn't have spent 8 years learning and mastering this skillset.
That being said, you are (unfortunately) right. Many guys loves reading this stuff without actually go out and practicing. But I don't care, because if they enjoy reading this (even without practicing it) that is totally fine to me. In addition to that, I am happy that the smaller percentage that actually goes out and do all this can actually benefit from it.
Even if it is only one guy that actually applies these concepts and manages to get laid, I will be happy and writing all this would be worth my time.
Alek
Thanks Alek!
Hey Alek,
Thanks for clearing it up and writing a whole article on it about escalation.
Helped a lot! I liked how you addressed my misconception of "too much".
After reading the post and rereading Anon's question, I realize what you mean by "Verbal" and "Physical" being the same escalation.
He asked for verbal (sex talk) and I asked for physical touch, all the same thing.
Questions for clarification:
1. What do you mean by
whenever a girl resist your moves, take a HUGE step back and re-initiate your escalation attempt (persistence).
An example of you persisting 3 times where you exercise this Huge step back and forward would be good too just to see how it looks like
2. Probably same as question 1.
And remember, that whenever you take a step back, you keep your focus on pushing things forward
Not sure how that looks like. By taking a step back and transition to lighter escalation or none (physical or verbal), how do we continue pushing forward when we move backwards too?
Thanks bro and appreciate your insights!
Lawliet
escalation in public
good article
theres all this slut defence thing...what about sleazy boys rep?
i had a date with a very young(19)girl and we went to a place many people knew me, she was actually very comfortable and seems to want to kiss, i thought in my mind that i should wait to get her isolated and didn't took that chance. bad/gd call?
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