Social status is ‘fuzzy’. That is, you often don’t know exactly
you rank compared to someone else. There are good reasons for this.
Social status is a very fuzzy thing.
On the one hand, you may have clear social status within a specific
group. You may clearly be the alpha male of the group (Male
the beta male (Male #2), or the gamma male (Male #3), and enjoy the
privileges of those
high ranks: interested women, respect from men, pride and recognition.
Or you may be in the middle. Or even the omega male of the group... The
guy who makes up the opposite bookend of the group from the alpha male.
But now step away from the social group we just talked about, and
join a different social group. And in this new group, you have no idea
what your social
status is. You clearly aren’t the alpha here, even if you were the
alpha in the old group. But you clearly aren’t the omega,
either, even if you were the omega
in the old group.
Indeed, you may participate in 10 different social groups, and have
different positions within the hierarchies of each one. Alpha in these
two, beta in these three, gamma in that one. Maybe you’re the
omega in one group – perhaps you just started tennis class, and
everyone there is way better than you and knows each other well, and
you can’t even hit the ball yet and feel like you do not belong.
Within a social group, the social status of the bookend individuals
is clear. Everybody knows who the alpha is, and everybody knows who the
omega is. Yet between
these roles, it’s much less clear. Are you the beta (#2) male and your
buddy is the gamma (#3) male? Or is it the other way around? He’s beta
and you’re gamma?
We’re going to talk about these and other measures of the fuzziness
of social status in this article.
So, if you’re ready for a little bit of a spun head, buckle in and
let’s make you dizzy.