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The Red-Black Game, Pt.4: Security, Fear, and Predicting Human Behavior

Jan 10, 2019

Feelings of security or fear largely influence how people play the game. Can these factors be used to predict whether someone will play red or black?

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9 Ways to Answer “What Do You Do” Without Saying What You Do

Jan 7, 2019

To avoid boring people out when they ask a question like “What do you do?” try answering the question without really answering it.

Answer 'What Do You Do' Without Saying What You Do

The Red-Black Game, Pt.3: Real-Life Example of How I Got the Shaft

Jan 3, 2019

The Red-Black Game can get hairy in competitive situations. Let’s take a look at an example from my own life where I get the shaft for not protecting myself.

Red-Black Game: How I Got the Shaft

The Red-Black Game, Pt.2: Playing for Self-Preservation

Dec 27, 2018

“Speak softly, and carry a big stick” was Theodore Roosevelt’s suggestion for how to play the Red-Black Game. Let’s talk about why it’s such a great strategy.

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The Red-Black Game, Pt.1: An Analogy for Life and Relationships

Dec 13, 2018

How you play the game of life will determine whether you win or lose. It’s nice if everyone could win all the time, but real life situations often make that impractical.

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Getting Seriously Good at Socializing Takes a Lot of Very Hard Work

Nov 22, 2018

To reach the top level of the most socially successful men, you have to hustle harder than almost anybody else.

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The 'Pay Your Dues' Approach to Incredible Social Skills

Nov 10, 2018

If you wait for life to give you chances to improve your social skills, you'll wait a long time. Create your own chances by becoming a socially attractive individual.

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When You Concede, Don't Pander or Break

Oct 23, 2018

You can't win every fight. But how you handle the situations where you must back down a bit determines how those you're in the fight with treat you.

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People as Their Alignments: Evil, Neutral, and Good

Oct 20, 2018

We each fall somewhere on the 9-sided moral alignment die. Lawful Good, Chaotic Neutral, Neutral Evil… where do you fall, and how does it impact things?

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Get Laid Like a Rock Star by Throwing House Parties

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By: Tony Depp

Sep 19, 2018

Want to know a perfect way to get social proof, pre-selection, and women climbing all over you… all in the comfort of your own home? Throw a house party!

Using House Parties to Get Laid

Tactics Tuesdays: Talk Simply and Clearly

Sep 18, 2018

Do you talk in clear, simple ways? The most effective communicators all do. Use these tips and make your language a breeze to understand.

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How to Be the Coolest Guy in the Room

Sep 6, 2018

The coolest guy in the room… every guy wants to be him. Yet you can't "try hard" to get there. The secret to his cool is what he does do – and what he doesn't.

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Tactics Tuesdays: How to Compartmentalize Your Lifestyles

Aug 21, 2018

Compartmentalization lets you keep separate areas of your life separate – and avoid fallout from ideological clashes or failing relationships.

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Tactics Tuesdays: Questioning Other Males' Masculinity

Jul 10, 2018

One highly effective way to eliminate social and sexual competitors: undermine their masculinity. Yet as powerful as this tactic is, you must use it carefully…

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Tactics Tuesdays: "That's Not for Me"

May 22, 2018

If a person tries to be pushy or a girl hits you with a question there’s no right answer for, the easiest way around it is to choose not to engage it.

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